CullyClan

Ending The Blog

2008-05-06T00:26:00.002+05:00

For reasons I'd rather not go into I have decided to stop writing on this public blog.

For those that have made supportive comments, thank you and please email me should you wish to keep in contact - or comment here.

For those that have been less than supportive, you know where you can go.

Lesley x

Ending This Blog

2008-05-05T16:29:00.002+05:00

For reasons I shall not go into on here, I have decided to stop writing on this public blog.

If you are a reader who wishes to remain in touch then please feel free to email me.

Many thanks for all the supportive comments I have had - for those that have not been so supportive, you know where you can go.

Kate - Rest in Peace at last

2008-03-05T19:58:00.001+04:00

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Parklife

2007-11-17T20:22:00.000+04:00

Have had a wonderful weekend - lots of activities that haven't involved traipsing round the malls!

Friday and Saturday are our weekend and Fridays are big family days in the UAE - it's very quiet on the roads and normally people start coming out in the afternoon and early evening. This was the case on Friday when we went to Safa Park. It's a huge open green (yay!) space where families go to chill out and relax.

It's a nominal fee to get in which helps pay for the splendid upkeep and cleanliness.

Anyway, the big thing is to take a picnic - in Dubai that means LOADS of food - there are lots of barbecue stands so you can cook your own food and the smells of various delights waft through the park. Here is a shot of one feast ready for preparation - including shisha pipes!

This next picture doesn't really do justice - I was trying to show the huge numbers of people relaxing but doesn't really convey the large numbers there:

I was also trying hard not to offend anyone by taking their picture so obviously - this one I took of Lydia was also to show the group of lads out on a Friday night in Dubai!

There is a Ferris wheel in the park and Lydia was determined to go on it - She first when on with Clive and loved it so I went with her the next time - I can say I didn't love it as much! When I was younger I would go on every ride and love it but the older I get, the more reserved I am becoming!

Still, I got some good shots of The Burj Dubai Tower - the tallest structure in the world - still not finished but absolutely dominates the skyline:

Lastly some shots of the day - also have a video but Blogger giving me problems so will try and update later!

Princess Lydia

2007-11-01T15:31:00.000+04:00

Lydia had a Halloween party at school today - here she is sporting her new crown and mask complete with chocolate mouth!
She's also getting really good at recognising letters everywhere and constantly points out L for Lydia - she has also amazed me by copying her name - look!

I Got Tickets!!!!!

2007-10-25T10:47:00.000+05:00

My Daughter The Model!!

2007-10-21T10:17:00.000+05:00

A while ago Lydia did some shots for a book on play. I visited the mailbox today and got a wonderful surprise - not only is the book published but she's on the cover!!!!!

I Love You!

2007-10-18T17:07:00.000+05:00

Happy Feet!

2007-10-13T22:44:00.000+05:00

I love this picture!

Anyway, things are ok here - Clive has been in Europe since Tuesday - gets home Wednesday. I am still working on the bath solution! I bath and feed Esme first then try and put her down so Lydia gets some time alone with me. It's not working at the moment. Usually Clive is around to bath Lydia while I do Esme - this means I have no time restraints on how long Esme feeds so she keeps going until she's completely full.

At the moment though I'm so aware that Lydia is crying out for attention that I rush Esme somewhat which means she wakes up halfway through Lydia's bath and ends up feeding while I read Lydia her story.

Oh well - will try again tomorrow!

The weather has cooled right down thankfully - when Clive gets back I want to visit the beach - Lydia really wants to go and make sandcastles and as it won't be oppresively hot anymore I want to go too! Have bought one of those UV tents for the beach as well so at least I can hide in there with Esme if it all gets too much!

We've also booked our Christmas flights - fly home 22nd Dec until 5th Jan and are rentinga house in the centre of Guildford so really looking forward to being home again!

Laugh!

2007-10-04T17:14:00.000+05:00

Absense Makes The Heart Grow Fonder!

2007-09-16T12:12:00.001+05:00

...So by now you'll all love me!!

Here I am, finally with a few minutes to update my blog! We've been on holiday to the UK so am now settling back into a routine here in Dubai.

Going home was wonderful - really lovely to be able to get out in the fresh air, have proper walks without fear of sunstroke and back to shops where I didn't have to convert the exchange rate every time I want to know the cost!

It was especially brilliant for Lydia - I was determined not to travel as much this time around as it means too much time in the car and nor enough holiday. So, Lydia got to see her cousins, George and Mollie most days. She adores them both - George only has to look at her to make her giggle and Mollie is her perfect playmate for games and dancing!

Esme fitted in perfectly too - she is really such a darling, no problem at all AND she only wakes once in the night after going down at 7pm! She is my reward after Lydia's non-sleeping I think!

Before going to the UK we held a mini party to celebrate Lydia's 3rd birthday - pictures attached! She is particularly fond of butterflies hence the cake and face painting - she actually asled for an aeroplane painted on her face but I had no idea where to start with that so she got the butterfly!

Then in the UK, Lydia celebrated again with lots of wonderful presents - she shares her birthday with my Mum and it was great to be able to be there on her day as well.

So, lots of pictures and huge love and thanks to my wonderful parents for again putting us up!

A Year On....

2007-08-01T15:12:00.000+05:00

Hello!! I am still around - just never get the time to update these days! Anyway, sorry to Cath who has been logging in to see what we're up to! This is just for you! Things are going really well - Esme is 4 weeks tomorrow and looks at least 2 months! Everyone is amazed when I tell them how old she is as she is so big and alert all the time.

She is feeding well - I'm feeding on demand so am never able to answer those trhat ask how often she feeds as I never keep track! What I do know is that she sleeps brilliantly - went 6 hours the other night. It's such a blessing, I just hope this continues! I am putting her for naps in her cot - Lydia used to be in her pram in the garden. That's impossible out here, the heat is just stifling and it would be a killer.

Lydia is doing well - a teeny bit clingy at times but that's to be expected. She's been so patient - the usual advice means that I'm not supposed to drive for 6 weeks and it's meant we have to rely on others for lifts. Still, I feel fine so I'm going to start venturing out soon.

Today is also a milestone in that it's a whole year in Dubai! So much has changed for us - from staying in a flat overlooking the developing marina, to a villa with tiny garden! I have got used to the place but can't see me ever calling it home llike some expats do. I have always said I could never live anywhere out of the UK. Well, that obviously changed but I'll always go back 'home'.

Sorry this is such a short update - Clive is away for the night and so I'm off to make myself some dinner before going to bed! Here are some photos anyway:

Chief Sitting Lydia with her HUGE Little sister!

Lydia with her Friend Thomas (sorry Sam!)

Lydia's Alltime Favourite Activity - Face Painting!

I came in to find Lydia breastfeeding Piglet!!!!

At Last - She's Arrived!

2007-07-10T20:13:00.000+05:00

Hello all!!! Finally, a chance to update and let you know that our baby is here at last!

It's lovely to be home - it was nice to be looked after in hospital for a while but nothing beats your own bed and toilet in my opinion!

So, down to the birth story - I hope it doesn't bore you all - there is much to say and no doubt much I've missed but I'll try and remember it all for you!
Thursday saw Clive and I leave for the hospital early. We left Lydia with our cleaner, bless her with a friend coming later with her daughter to play.
We were started at the hospital in a huge suite as they were very busy - it's normally booked by the wealthier Arabs for their huge entourage.

So, 8am and I was given the prostaglandin gel which kicked in right away - it didn't work with Lydia so obviously things from here on were bound to be different! I tried to keep occupied with travel scrabble but both Clive and I were coming up with really rubbish words so soon packed that away!
We were then transferred to the labour and delivery room by our lovely German midwife - she kept saying HA at the end of EVERY sentence which did get a bit distracting toward the end!! Our doctor then decided to break my waters to get things moving more.
Now, please excuse me for lack of timelines - I didn't keep a proper track and was then too out of it to care so bear with me!
Breaking waters with Lydia was a breeze - this time is was PAINFUL!!! I literally cried when the doctor examined me and then kept apologising for crying!!
The contractions then started immediately and didn't let up AT ALL. The gas and air was wonderful - with Lydia I had a brief dalliance with gas and air which had an attachment to hold between your teeth. This time I had a full face mask and I quickly worked out that I could get LOADS of the stuff by opening my mouth as wide as possible and gulping it down!

The midwife was lovely - giving me relaxing back rubs with her special aromatherapy oils. I was making all sorts of long groaning noises and poor Clive didn't think I'd stop for breath!! His hand was also caught between mine and the rail - I'm not sure if there are bruises but I know I squeezed HARD!!
She then gave me pethadine and I started asking for an epidural. I really had no build up to the pain - it was full on straight away and despite my best efforts at imagining waves coming in and out or climbing up and down mountains, my positive thinking was being overtaken by pain.
She examined me and I could hear her agreeing to an epidural and went to call the anaesthetist.

She was a while though - in which time I had convinced myself that her lovely oils and massage hid a determined woman who wanted me to have a natural birth and so was lying to me so she could come back and say it was too late for an epidural. This is when I started telling Clive to get an epidural NOW and that she was a liar! He then offered to hold my gas mask - big mistake as I think I nearly punched his hand away!
Anyway, they eventually got hold of lovely man who struggled as this time the pethadine had kicked in and I was now a moaning gas and air addict, high on pethadine and nearly sideways.
The midwife then decided to do another internal to see how far along I was and this was it - MASSIVE blood surge and even she turned white, said 'oh God' and started pressing the panic button and getting Clive to call our doctor to come IMMEDIATELY. It was Clive really who had to stay strong and reassure me - I was now too out of it to really appreciate the situation that was a placental abruption - I've had to look it all up to understand what actually happened. All I recall is being told we had to have a c-section, I had done brilliantly and off we went.

The actual surgery went smoothly - I saw the cut in my belly in the overhead lights! Lucky I'm not at all squeamish and I think the anaesthetist was a bit taken aback that I was so interested! I did feel incredibly sick though and threw up a couple of times because of all the medication.
They eventually let Clive in all donned in his greens! He is not good with any form of op so looked away while coming to the 'North end' as he calls it!

Then at 17.55 Dubai time, Esme Louise Cully was born weighing 9lbs 2oz! What a girl! In my eyes she is a fatter Lydia - really similar in looks.
The hospital gave her formula immediately as 1) I was too out of it to really do much and 2) they had a concern over her blood glucose levels. If she'd been my first I would have been very upset but you know, I'm fine about it. My milk has come in today (hello boobs!!) and I am combining breast and formula - she is a very hungry baby, so much so that her final weight at the hospital was 9lbs 5 ozs so she's PUT ON instead of losing it as normal!!

I got the shakes in my arms and lost a lot of blood - worrying as well as I'm RH negative and the midwife admitted after that she was worried the hospital were panicking as they didn't have my blood. Thankfully I didn't need a transfusion though.

Lydia adores her new baby sister and I am besotted already - I don't think the shock has hit me yet although Clive is wonderful at doing everything at the moment so I am being well cared for. I am proud that I tried natural labour - as long as my baby was safe then that's all that matters.

I'll leave it there now - I will regale you soon with more detail on the Arab experience! In the meantime - here's some shots of my new family!!

Another Day, Nothing New!

2007-07-02T18:20:00.000+05:00

I may as well just copy and paste the last message as I still have no news!

Another day, another CTG at the hospital - went back to the surgery for another sweep and doctor has now re booked my induction for Thursday.
This is a mixed blessing; good because it gives me more time and will mean I'll be 10 days over, the maximum they give here. Bad because I'd set my focus on having the baby tomorrow and we'd made arrangements for Lydia with our friend.
Still, after the sweep the doctor still thinks I'll have the baby naturally which has made me happy, despite not really believing her! I have been having cramps all afternoon though so I'm thinking positively!

In the meantime, Happy 40th Birthday to my sister Ruth for tomorrow - off to Venice for a birthday treat and hope you enjoy it as much as we did!

Sorry - Nothing New!

2007-06-28T18:36:00.000+05:00

Well no news is good news I suppose!

Managed to persuade the doctor to give me a few more days until induction - that'll slightly lower the risk of a c-section which I don't want at all.
Went to the hospital today though for a CTG - basically a monitor of baby's heartbeat and movements - it's the first time we've actually heard the heart as our doctor only scans - doesn't have a doppler! Can't decide if it sounded like a galloping horse or runaway train though so still no clue as to girl or boy!

Anyway, I hate being strapped to the monitor - I keep looking at the machine and trying to adjust how I sit so they can get a good rate. If I do get induced I know this is what I'd have to put up with while on a drip so I'll have to just accept that. I had to drink some cold juice to wake the baby and then they seemed pleased with the results.
My doctor then arrived and gave me another sweep - said the baby's head was still high and so I'm glad we've held off on induction.
I have to go for another monitor on Saturday and Monday, then proper induction is booked for 3rd July - my sister's birthday! Lydia was born on my Mums so it would be nice if this one was born on Ruth's!

Good news is the hospital menu looks GREAT!! So looking forward to some nice meals while I'm there!

Thanks for all the good wishes! I hope to update soon with baby arrival news but until then, that's the latest!

Nothing to Report!

2007-06-25T10:11:00.000+05:00

Well overdue for an update!
The news is...ther is no news! Today is my official due date but as it's quite normal not to deliver on the due date I'm not holding out much hope.
No major aches or anything so I'm starting to think it will be induction on Thursday - not that I want that at all. I'm seeing the doctor again tomorrow so we'll see what she says then.
Clive has gone to Abu Dhabi today - no point him being around really and it's only an hour away at the most should anything exciting happen!

I've been using my clary sage oil religiously and drinking raspberry leaf tea in the hope of starting things off. but like all things, baby will come when he/she is ready. So, Lydia and I are meeting friends today for lunch and carrying on as normal!

Getting Better

2007-06-09T19:40:00.000+05:00

As the title suggests I have had a much better couple of days. I have been staying away from reading all the updates now and am just relying on the emails my ex boss sends me.
Clive has been brilliant and to cheer ourselves up, we went to the art and craft fair that was held in a local shopping mall (most things are held in malls for some reason!)
Anyway, I was excited to see a knitting stall and have arranged to join their coffee morning tomorrow so I can get some needed wool and have a chat about stitches without Clive looking at me as though I were demented!

Whilst there we found a stall with only a few pieces on - a local Emirati woman had made pictures by patch working silk. There was one work which Clive and I fell in love with and ended up buying and here it is:

It's so much better in the flesh and from a distance. It's a picture of a wind tower (original Arabian air conditioning) and buildings but we were transfixed by it - here's a close up:

I'm not sure if it shows the work in its glory but there really has been a lot of time and stitches put in. It's nice we've got something beautiful and locally made that we haven't seen anywhere else.

Thought I'd also show the bump - 37 weeks and 5 days so just over 2 weeks to go now.

This was me at 37 weeks with Lydia - I think I'm about the same although I'm certainly less puffy than I was first time round.

So, there you have it!

My Friend Kate

2007-06-06T18:51:00.000+05:00

First of all I want to say a huge thank you to everyone who has left me messages about Kate.
The last few days have been very difficult but nothing compared to what her family must be going through. They have released a wonderful statement to the press which I am sure you will see over the next few days. I can only imagine the man involved made a terrible mistake as my head cannot process that someone would do something like that to Kate willingly.

I used to sit next to Kate at work and just wanted to tell you my thoughts of her. Kate was one of the funniest women I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Her sense of humour was so dry, some often took her the wrong way but to me, meant I was constantly laughing and loving her company.
Kate was extremely sociable and had lots of good friends which is testament to the type of woman she was. I am so honoured that I am one of those friends and privileged that I knew her.
She loved a good cup of tea and would always ask to have my chocolate wrapper (Mars bar usually) when I'd finished so she could smell the chocolate without putting on any weight! On my last day at work before going on maternity leave, Kate deliberately played Cliff Richard's "Congratulations" very loudly, knowing how much I detest him!!!

Kate was a beautiful woman, inside and out and will be sorely missed.

URGENT APPEAL

2007-06-03T20:51:00.000+05:00

Please try and help - this is my friend Kate - I used to work with her and she is missing. If anyone has any ideas on how to help or can distribute this appeal PLEASE do so - I am in desperate need to know my friend is safe.

Concern for Missing Walton woman
Submitted: 03/06/2007 13:48:32
NORTH Surrey Police is appealing for help in tracing a 32-year-old woman from Walton who has not been seen since last Wednesday evening.
Katie Helen Claire Beagley of Nelson Close was last seen by her father at around 6.30pm on Wednesday 30 May before returning home. Later that evening it is believed she may have been in the company of a black man in his twenties from the Ladbroke Grove area, and may have visited the Chiswick, Richmond and Twickenham areas.
Katie has since missed several appointments and not turned up for work.
Her disappearance is out of character and police are concerned for her safety.
She has access to and is believed to be in possession of a grey VW Golf registration RA04TRZ. A sighting has been confirmed of the vehicle on Chiswick Bridge on Wednesday 30 May at 11.58pm.
Katie is described as white, 5ft6in to 5ft 7ins in height, of medium build with straight, brown collar length hair.
Can you help? Anyone who has seen Katie or recognises her description is asked to contact the North Surrey Missing Persons Unit at Walton Police Station on 0845 125 2222 quoting reference M/07/934.
Recent photo of Katie Beagley attached.
For further information please contact Surrey Police press office
E-mail: press.office@surrey.pnn.police.uk You might like to search the website for other items to do with Missing person, Walton, Elmbridge.

Sorry for Rubbish Blog

2007-05-26T16:56:00.000+05:00

I've had a lot of people say they can't leave a comment on the blog - no idea what is going on, have checked my settings and nothing's changed so sorry about that but keep reading and I'll keep updating!

Clive has been in the UK for a business trip - left Tuesday morning and got back early hours of this morning. I always get horrible thoughts when he's away that something terrible is going to happen but thankfully he's back safely.

Lydia and I had a lovely afternoon yesterday - Mandy, my boss from my working days is in Dubai for a few days with her partner to celebrate her 40th! We went and met them on the beach. Lydia had a wonderful time - Ian took her swimming and then down the slides by the pool which she loved. Went out like a light last night although that didn't last long before she wanted to come in with me again!

Update on the baby - had a check up today. Baby is due 25th June and the Dr has booked me for induction for 28th June!!! She said the hospital gets very busy and so to have a firm date now is preferable. That only gives me 3 days of being overdue which is not ideal - I REALLY don't want to be induced. Still, we shall see what happens nearer the time but until then, plenty of walking!

Still, here I am today at 35 weeks and 5 days!

I've gone blonde - sort of!

2007-05-20T18:29:00.000+05:00

Here I am with highlights for the very first time. They're not as blonde as I'd feared thankfully and do look better in the flesh rather than the picture.

Pottery & Wool!

2007-05-08T15:11:00.000+05:00

Last week we all went to a cafe where you paint as you eat - lots of them in the UK I know. Anyway, Lydia LOVED it - she sat and painted her choices - a fish and a starfish with Clive, while I happily painted a spoonrest. We collected them recently and here they are in all their glory!
Other crafty news - I've finished the blanket!! Loads of mistakes which I'm hoping not to repeat but I'm still pleased with it:

Happy Birthday Dad!

2007-04-28T20:14:00.000+05:00

To my wonderful Dad - Happy Birthday!

Wish we were there to celebrate with you!

Deana in Dubai!

2007-04-27T16:13:00.000+05:00

The concert was great!

Can't believe it's a week since we went. Anyway, last Friday we went for a browse around one of the shops (one of the very few shops) that sell good knitting wool. I bought a few patterns and some gorgeous wool with full intentions to knit myself some tops. The blanket is going well - over halfway now so confident it will be finished in time!

This particular chain of shops in Dubai is really for books and who should be doing a book signing there but Deana Martin!!

I was first in line (very sad I know). Not sure how she took my anecdote about her Dad getting me through my first labour but she did laugh!

The concert was held at the Dubai Polo Club which is only up the road to us. Normally organised events here are rubbish with traffic chaos but this was done really well. We parked easily, got a wristband for our seating and off we went. It was literally a picnic affair - there were 3 sections, nearest the stage were the most expensive, all-in food seats, middle was where we were - tables and chairs and back section just chairs. Everyone made an effort though with groups bringing their own gorgeous picnics, rugs and I even saw a candelabra complete with burning candles!

I have to say that Deana Martin is not a great singer but it was still great - especially the support of Bob Anderson, 'Mr Rat Pack' who did brilliant singing impressions of the Las Vegas greats.

Alison had a particularly good time!

Today has been lovely - Fridays are obviously the start of our weekend and Friday brunches are the norm. We decided to go back to the polo club for their offering. Lydia took this shot of me at the table:

She was as good as ever and really enjoyed her houmous followed by melon. There was a clown for entertainment and as long as he kept his distance, she was fine! Here she is with her balloon heart:

They also did pony rides - Lydia just has absolutely no fear around horses - she jumped at the chance to get on and didn't need me or Clive to walk with her!

I'm now nearly 32 weeks - amazing! It's going well and I feel fine although getting very tired in the evenings. Clive has booked me a special pregnancy massage tonight bless him so I have a wonderful pamper to look forward to later!

This is Where I'm Going Friday!

2007-04-18T19:52:00.000+05:00

A concert by Deana Martin - daughter of the fabarooney late Dean Martin - one of my fave easy listening crooners - I am VERY excited!!

Chic Chicks DO Knit!

2007-04-11T20:52:00.000+05:00

You may recall from a previous post that I have restarted an old hobby - knitting! It's very trendy these days you know!
Anyway, disaster recently struck as the cheap plastic needle I was using for my baby blanket snapped so I lost a stitch - I'm still very much a novice so unfortunately had no idea how to recover the stitch or recall where I was on the row. So, I unpicked the lot and decided to start a smaller project to get my confidence back and here it is.......

Baby mittens and bootees!! I'm stupidly proud of them as I had to really think on how to put the bootees together as the instructions didn't make sense at first.

Still, they are done and now I can restart the blanket. mmmmm, 180 rows to knit in less than 80 days 'til my due date.....what are the odds on finishing in time? Answers on a comment please!

A Day at the Races - Dubai Style!

2007-04-07T19:09:00.000+05:00

One of the things I've started appreciating about Dubai is that we get the oppurtunity to do things we wouldn't normally - last Saturday was an example when we went to the Dubai World Cup - the richest horse race in the world!
It's a huge thing in the expat calendar and is a chance to dress up and wear a hat - something I love to do!

There is no betting allowed obviously but plenty of punters put bets on online. We were given free entry into the draw to find winners of all 7 races but of course we got nowhere! Asiatic Boy romped home though - one I did pick out (I always go for names as opposed to form, how girly is that?!)

Anyway, here are some shots of the day:

Inga and Chris looking very regal!

Travers and Alison

Posing Girls and Grinning Boys!!Listening to the race on a free radio they handed out!

Spot the Sheikh!
Alison getting her fascinator (headpiece) fixed in place!
Yes, I wore heels and yes, my feet were killing me!

Invasor won - the prize money was 6 million US dollars!!!

My Favourite Photos of the Moment

2007-03-30T10:10:00.000+05:00

Blooming!

2007-03-22T12:01:00.000+04:00

I mean that about the garden by the way! As you can see it's looking great - the grass is now completely grown and the flowers are looking great. We have a Gardener who comes and tidies up and waters every other day. As long as he gets his tea and biscuits!
Last week we went on our hospital tour. We are now booked to have the baby at the American Hospital. It's mainly because our gynaecologist has admitting rights there and as soon as I'm in established labour, they will call her to deliver me - personalised service! The rooms are amazing - all are private with an en-suite shower room. The only thing they don't offer are water births so I've resigned myself to that. I didn't get one last time either as I was induced. I'm hoping for more natural this time though so am looking for a qualified reflexologist in the hope they may be able to bring on the baby if needed nearer the time!
Husbands are allowed to stay overnight but Clive will obviously be at home with Lydia. Friends have offered to be the emergency contact should we need them at short notice to look after her as well.
So, here I am yesterday at 26 weeks and 2 days! I look quite similar to last time at 26 weeks, maybe a teeny bit more compact. I don't seem to have put much weight on this time and was lighter before I got pregnant anyway - positives of living in a dry country means less wine to drink!

I visited the new M&S that's opened here as well. It's the largest outside of the UK but still small in comparison. The food section is OK - no fresh produce though as M&S can't guarantee local providers so it's all dry and frozen - £8 for a box of scampi!!! Anyway, saw a 'knit your own baby blanket' kit and so I indulged! Started last night and am now hooked - I have to be - only 3 months for me to finish it!

Back in the UK!

2007-03-05T18:18:00.000+04:00

Sorry about the delay in updating my blog - no excuses! Anyway, had a wonderful time back home in the UK. Stayed at my Mum and Dad's which was great - thanks to them for putting us up AND for putting up with us! Stupidly I didn't get any proper pictures of my family - I kept planning to and then the battery went on the camera so was unable to get any - really upset over that but will make up for it on my next trip home.

While we were home it was my niece Amy's 18th birthday (where has that time gone??) Thanks to my Aunt Viv for sending these pictures to me:

Amy (sitting down), my sister Ruth presenting the cake with George as the escort!

George made some terrific balloon hats which Lydia and Mollie wore with pride - here's Mollie and Lydia taking their turns at blowing out the candles:

I had taken some warm clothing for Lydia but my sister Delena had thoughtfully left some more tights, trousers and long sleeved tops out for me so Lydia was well covered!

We were only really able to travel to see everyone in the first week as Clive had to work the second week and so needed the hire car. It meant some heavy journies up and down the country and we still didn't really manage to see everyone but tried our best.

Clive with Zach on his lap, entertaining Jove, Jaya and Lydia at Jemma's house (so fab to see you, Bobbie and the children!!)

Lydia and Nicole on their way to the garden

Bobbie pushing Nicole, Jaya AND Lydia!!

Lydia sewing at my Mums (George, Mollie and Lydia really loved these lacing cards and were all really good at them!)Me and my dear friend Cathy

Cathy's gorgeous son Samuel, proving that first loves never die!

The original Cully Clan

Lydia with cousins Ben and Oliver
With cousin Alison
L-R Simone holding Lewis (Michelle's baby), me and Michelle (Lydia's Godmother) holding Lola (Simone's daughter!)
Cuddling baby Lewis, son of Lydia's Godparents

Lydia insisted on holding Lewis at every chance!

Baking cakes at Nanny and Grandads (my Mum is a great baker and always has something delicious and homemade ready to eat)
Finally, some pictures I forgot to put on before I went - friends Del and Clair came to stay for a few days :

And my wonderful friend Debbie had her leaving party before leaving me (how dare you!) and returning home to the UK!

Lydia also has now started nursery 3 mornings a week. It's not cheap unfortunately and we don't get it paid for under Clive's contract so we've had to find the money. It was really a case of her needing the stimulation though and proper interaction with other children her age and so far has proved to be worth every dirham (or penny!) She has settled exceptionally well and the teachers have commented on how well she's done in her first week! Every week I'll get given a book full of what she's been up to - that should start next week so looking forward to that. As for me it's given me some precious free time. So far I've spent it ironing and food shopping which doesn't sound very exciting but makes me happy!

Looking grown up with her bag full of spare knickers, sun hat and sunscreen!

Catch Up!

2007-02-06T20:35:00.000+04:00

Blimey - I must start blogging more - I'm starting to lapse!

Been a good few days really - I'm feeling ok at the moment living here (have been quite homesick). It helped to have family visits and knowing we're going home in just over a week is fab!

Not so fab is that my good friend Debbie and her family have decided to move back to the UK - I'm so going to miss her. We get on so well and Lydia and Madeline play together really well. That's the problem with an expat community - someone will always be leaving as my mate Karen in Spain is only too aware of.

Oh well, first of the goodbye drinks tomorrow night (mmm, apple juice for me then!)

Last Friday was my other friend Marie's twins 1st birthday so we all went out for brunch. The pork crackling was marvellous! Here we all are:

Sorry the scan isn't that clear but you can see what a lump I'm starting to look! On the way home we saw loads of local cars - the UAE have just won the Middle East equivalent of the football world cup and the place went mad! It was great - decorated cars and people, horns blasting everywhere, fireworks, the lot. There was a piece on the local news tonight though that the police are looking for anyone that dressed as a woman during the celebrations - cross dressing is a huge no no over here and is against the law. How Michael Jackson got away with it I'll never know!

Potty training just gets better - she now asks to go to the toilet and is ecstatic every time - so much so that when she is with me in the cubicle, I get a round of applause when I go!!! Not so brilliant is her sleep again. Lydia has never been a brillliant sleeper and has been unsettled by visitors - not their fault, it's just that she is so aware of change that she starts to play on it. We tried letting her watch tv for a while after her bath before bed but it was not working at all - she was falling asleep on the sofa about 9.30 and I don't want to give in to her like that. So, we made a reward chart together and every night she sleeps in her own bed, she gets a sticker. It working at the moment - we're using the rapid return technique favoured in House of Tiny Tearaways. Every time she gets up we don't talk to her, just lead her back to bed. We don't even pick her up as that denotes a cuddle and she'd just cling on like a limpet!

Last night she came to my room once at 4am but I led her back to bed and she stayed there until 6am. Fingers crossed it'll be all night soon - just in time for our flight back home and we'll have to start all over again!

The other day we had a huge sandstorm - I stupidly left some windows open for the 'fresh' air and by the end of the day the whole house was covered in a layer of sand - thank goodness we have a cleaner! I won't be doing that again in a hurry.

So, brief catch up from me really. Apologies to those friends I haven't commented on blogwise and Sal, I will do your question one I promise!

Wetting Somebody's Head

2007-01-26T19:01:00.000+04:00

Spent a lovely day at the mall. I really needed some maternity clothes at last. I got rid of all the stuff I had for Lydia - it was mainly work stuff anyway and too hot for over here. I got some brilliant bargains - particularly 3 gorgeous tops that aren't even maternity so will see me through baby and beyond and a lovely black wrap dress. I swear by wrap dresses - they suit me and so versatile!
So, that was all my birthday and Christmas money well spent today!

Finally got Lydia a new pair of shoes. I hate shoe shopping for her over here - they measure ok but then they don't seem to check the fit properly enough for me. Still, got some great trainer type light up shoes from Clarks in red. She's thrilled with them! Also got her a warm jacket and top for going home in.
Clive bought himself a new phone so he didn't miss out - actually that was a shame as he dropped his normal one this morning and cracked the screen - it's a touch screen as well so that no longer works, hence the need for a new one.

Potty training has suddenly got amazing!! After 2 days of me wondering what the hell I was thinking of, Lydia has taken to the toilet really well - still does her poo in her nappy which she wears over night but that's fine. It was funny today though - Clive went to get a bottle of water while Lydia and I sat eating fruit. When he got back we said toilet time and then she said 'Mummy, trousers wet'. Yep, she'd weed her pants - no real problem except we'd perched ourselves on a ledge which meant her wee had actually dripped down a wall, onto the shopping floor below - it must have got someones head in the process!!! The shame!! A good story for when she's older though!

So that's it really - babysitting for my friend round the corner tonight - going to take my DVD of Bleak House that I've been wanting to watch - it's not Clive's sort of thing so I can indulge myself!

Bumps and Bling

2007-01-22T18:51:00.000+04:00

Latest round of family visits going well! They've visited loads of places and been out most days so at least they're making the most of it!

Update from us here then - Clive is safely back from a week in Dallas - I must admit to not coping brilliantly while he's away - it's not that I need him constantly it's just nice to have the back up when I need him, like tonight he's bathing Lydia and it just gives me the break I need.
Anyway the day he was due back I decided it's now or never to start potty training Lydia - she's made the decision really as she now point blank refuses to wear a nappy. So far she's done 1 wee on the toilet and the rest on the floor - at least we have tiles I keep telling myself but goodness knows how long this will take! I keep asking her and taking her to the loo. She's not interested in her potty but seems to like the toddler toilet seat and step although at times it's hard getting her to go on it and I'm trying not to force the issue or make it into a huge thing.
I'll be so glad when it's done though - she did a wee on the floor at the doctors today and Clive and I were trying not to laugh as we cleared it all up and discreetly changed her knickers!
Speaking of which - Bean II update - all seems well. Here I am today at 18 weeks - where did that time go then? (photo posed a la Jemma in the mirror!)

I had a scan last week - I reminded her I didn't want to know the sex (sorry those that want to know but I'm not finding out!). Again the scan was great but pictures don't do it justice - she did print these as they show the baby's hand perfectly (at least one hand has all the digits then) and the other with the black blob is the stomach - this was because as we watched, the baby was swallowing and so filling the stomach - really fascinating!

I have been feeling some movements - bit like popping down below so that's encouraging. I must admit I always found it a weird sensation with Lydia - especially when she'd do a full somersault - urgh!

Clive has promised me an eternity ring for ages and today we got it!! I'm not one for too much bling but this I fell in love with. There is a gold souk (market) here which is really good but also a retail park just for gold and diamonds so we went there. I tried a few on then I looked up all about diamond clarity so I had some idea what they were talking about. It needs to be made slightly smaller and my wedding and engagement ring polished but here it is in all its beautiful glory - what do you think?

I'm so chuffed with it as you can imagine! All for a bargain £500! Wonder what the UK value will be?

Oh and just watched the first episode of Ugly Betty - hormones made me cry for the most part of it even though it's a comedy but I loved it and can't wait for next week - TV is so dire here it's a refreshing change to have a good programme on at a reasonable time - most decent things start at midnight.

Signing off for now but counting the days until I arrive in Blighty!

Family Fun

2007-01-12T18:17:00.000+04:00

Phew! I finally get a chance to update my blog! My sister and her family arrived safely just after Christmas and since then, we've all been busy!

Firstly though, a MASSIVE congratulations to the wonderful Michelle and Tim, Lydia's godparents on the safe arrival of Lewis and also to my mate Sally for the birth of Toby - can't wait to meet the new arrivals!

Anyway, back to the visit! After a day or so getting over the jetlag (we're 4 hours ahead in Dubai), everyone settled in. The weather hasn't been the hottest ever but I think that suited the children - just wish our community pool had been heated sooner. They were 'fixing' it every day and it was only really bearable on the last day, typical!

George had brought along Bertie Bear from his school who goes with different children on holidays around the world - we managed to get pictures of him by the Burj Al Arab and with some background palm trees so his classmates and teacher should be impressed! I also dressed him in the dishdash outfit Lydia has for her toy dog so that added more local culture to it all!

Lydia adored having her cousins here - she used to see them every week at home so it was lovely to see them all together again. She idolises George and did everything he wanted - with Mollie though, she decided she was going to do and say the opposite hence lots of conversations between them like 'yes', 'no' all the time!!

We took them all to our first proper Friday brunch. Fridays are the first day of our weekend and lots of people go to brunch. We booked at Nad Al Sheba which is the horse and camel racecourse. It was wonderful - full roast with pork (yippee!), lamb, beef all the trimmings, sushi, soup and as many desserts as we could eat. There was also a children's pasta station, ice cream and full bouncy castle, cartoons and face painting all included.

Lydia LOVES having her face painted and decided she wanted to have a yellow butterfly - it was only after a while I realised that she looked so strange because they'd painted over her eyebrows - made her look like the Man Who Fell to Earth!!

It was also Eid out here so that meant a public holiday. We decided to take them to Safa Park and it was great. The parks are really well maintained out here with lots of facilities - there is a small boating pond in this one so everyone except me and Delena piled into a small cruiser with George as the captain! After all the children chose a balloon - Lydia went for the largest pink flower she could see - she's since let it go in the house and it's now floating in the highest ceiling area which we can't possibly reach until it deflates!

Lydia got loads more Christmas presents - one of which was a fairy costume which she loves!

I now have a couple of days before my othr sister gets here! Clive has gone to Dallas this morning for a week on business so it'll be me and Lydia meeting them at the airport - got my directions so I should be ok!

Other big news - we've booked a flight home!!!!!!! So we shall be travelling on 15th Feb and staying for 2 weeks - I'd love to see as many of you as possible so will email or call when I'm home to arrange dates!

Will leave you with the family shot including Lydia with her fingers near her nose!

A Hot Christmas!

2006-12-27T18:30:00.000+04:00

Well, Christmas in Dubai has been and just about gone! It started on Christmas Eve when we met friends at the Jumeriah Beach Hotel which is right next to the Burj Al Arab. We intended having high tea while they had a carol service but unfortunately, the carols didn't start until 6.30 which was too late for the excited children!

High tea at the hotel - Marie in the background with one of her twins, Freya.
Never mind, we had a couple of drinks back at Marie and Ron's then got home to start the celebrations. I did take a film of Lydia putting out her goodies for Father Christmas (I detest calling him Santa - sorry!) but it was too dark. Still, biscuits, a carrot and some water (no spirits here I'm afraid) were duly left by the front door at Lydia's request.
I then checked where she wanted to leave her stocking (thankfully outside her door - she has a blackout blind and I wasn't looking forward to stumbling around!). She understood what was happening but still too young to let it keep her awake thank goodness.

Anyway, our tradition is to have a Chinese takeaway on Christmas Eve but we weren't that hungry after our high tea so had toast and sour cream and chive crisps instead (thanks Marie!).
Christmas Day dawned bright and warm - Clive and I lay waiting for Lydia to wake....until we decided if we didn't wake her, we'd be in a rush for lunch - 8.15!! The latest she's slept in for ages. She was amazed at her bulging stocking but even more when she saw the half finished carrot and a few crumbs from the biscuits. Then she saw the presents under the tree. What a wonderful sight - a totally glorious reason for being a parent, to see such joy and amazement!

Lydia with "baby doll" who drinks, burps and sleeps much to Lydia's delight!

She got loads from us as this is the first year she really aprreciates it and I put full stress on the word appreciate - I can proudly say she took the time to look at each present and be delighted - it was Clive urging her on to "rip the paper!!"
Lunch was at the local golf club where we shared a table with friends Debbie and Sean. It was a buffet affair but really delicious and I'm so glad we booked it. The obvious turkey with delicious giblet gravy was joined by beef, duck, lamb and a whole host of potatoes and veg. Lydia and Madeline played together beautifully leaving us adults to enjoy the food and company. There was entertainment laid on for the children (Father Christmas from the Phillipines anyone?!) Still, Lydia didn't seem to mind.

We then all had a rest at home before joining Debbie and Sean at their house. Lydia loves going there as Madeline has a trampoline so she can "boing" (her word) to her hearts content.

Boxing Day was really a normal day. There isn't anything like the Christmas telly you get at home and is a normal working day as it's a Muslim country. So, we took delivery instead of our new sofa bed, side board and.....Lydia's proper big bed!!!!

She was very excited about it and last night was her first night in it. She did brilliantly. We checked on her when we went to bed and she'd wedged herself across the width of the bed, between the wall and the safety bar but she lasted until 4am until calling out - I think she'd got a bit confused as to hwhere she was as she is now lying opposite to how she did in the cot. Still, she's excited again about going to sleep in her new bed so that's good! She also puts her new doll in her own bed before getting in the big bed!
I'be also bought her some knickers!! I am going to start toilet training for real soon. She does sit on her potty but never does anything although does like to wipe with a tissue after watching me!!

My sister and her family arrive on Saturday so I'm really looking forward to that - got loads to do with them and I'm just hoping the weather stays warm as it did rain for a good while. They'll be bringing us all more presents from home so eeking out Christmas as long as we can!

Bond, James Bond

2006-12-20T09:54:00.000+04:00

Last night saw another new experience for me - going to the cinema in Dubai! I'd bought tickets for Clive as an anniversary present and he decided he wanted to use them. It's very different from home - first of all you can't pre-book tickets. You turn up to buy and then you don't choose where you sit, it's all first come first served.
We wanted to see Casino Royale which has been out a while and I think that was good - not so busy and we got good seats.
The first thing we got was popcorn - there was a choice as there is always but between salt, caramel (mmm) and ......cheese!!! YUCK!!! Cheesy popcorn so does not appeal!
Another thing I'd been told was that cinema etiquette is sometimes lacking - by that I mean people here are so attached to their mobile phones that they happily chat away whilst watching a film - luckily this wasn't the case last night.
Clive is a bit of a cinema buff so HAD to go and ask the operator to open the curtains by the screen a bit more as it wasn't widescreen enough for him!
But, to the film - BRILLIANT!!! I've actually always enjoyed James Bond films but not been that bothered by Pierce Brosnan it has to be said but Daniel Craig?! ABSOLUTELY!!! Terrific Bond, just as he should be - violent, sexy and brilliant in the role!

Anyway, that's my short update - off shopping today to spend some money!

Mmmm, Noodles!

2006-12-15T17:38:00.000+04:00

Another day another day out! This time to the Mother Child and Baby Show. Again, nothing like the UK version but not bad! There were a few freebies to be had. There was also a Barney show (Lydia was VERY excited about Barney) but we'd heard it got manic round the stage and it wasn't that well set up so we missed that - we got Lydia a Barney balloon instead which she was thrilled with!

We fell in love with the Bugaboo pram all over again but as we have a perfectly good 3-wheeler already can't really justify buying a new one. Hey, ho!

Here's Lydia on a bouncy castle thing before she got her face painted:

After walking round a few times we left for lunch at the Noodle House - we all love noodles and Lydia always insists on eating with the chopsticks!

Ok, as promised - bump picture! This is me today at 12+4 (12 weeks and 4 days for those not in the know!) I really need to sort my hair out - I'm trying to grow into a bob but the layers are taking ages to get out. It always goes a lot redder when I'm pregnant as well I've noticed! I couldn't face a skin shot either I'm afraid so fully dressed bump this time!

It was precisely on my due date that I tested - I had no idea to be honest and forgot about the test in the loo while I was seeing to Lydia. I couldn't believe it when it turned positive as this was our first attempt this time - took 7 months with Lydia! Clive was working late so I broke the news over the phone - we were both obviously thrilled but I was a bit in shock as it had happened so quickly!

I visited the doctor immediately (stupid really as he just confirmed it with some blood tests and said I was a bit aneamic - very normal). So that's it really! Feeling better now the sickness has passed but that's been replaced by tiredness at about 3 in the afternoon. There's a few women I've met who've given birth over here so that's made me feel better about things - would still rather be home though it has to be said! There's lots to find out about legalities (dual nationality that sort of thing - I don't think the baby is automatically Emirati by birth so will have to read up on it all)

Music!

2006-12-13T20:47:00.000+04:00

Isn't it gorgeous? This is my new 'thing'. It's a Samsung MP3 player that has earphones or a snazzy slide out speaker so you can listen anywhere!
It's all thanks to Clive - he loves the gadget magazine Stuff and it has recently launched over here so instead of paying loads of money for an imported magazine, he can read up to his hearts content on all the electronics he thinks he MUST have for only £1.50 a copy!
Anyway, he was so pleased, he emailed a letter to tell them which they only went and published as the star letter!!!!! He won this MP3 and as he already has an iPod has given it to me!!! YAY for me!!
So, it's now got some of my favourite tunes on there, including Simon Webbe, UB40, Al Green, Katie Melua AND Dean Martin!!!!
Anyway, he's out tonight with friends so I'm off for an early night with my book (Plain Truth by Jodi Picoult - I LOVE her books) and some background easy listening!

I'll post soon with my first bump picture (amazing how much I've popped so quickly second time round) and all the news you need - Sasha!

Father Christmas!!

2006-12-11T19:01:00.000+04:00

A big day for Lydia - she met Father Christmas!
We went with my friend Debbie and Madeline her daughter to Wafi City, another shopping mall (there are SO many in Dubai). Unfortunately I took a wrong road and we ended up at the airport. Roads are HORRIBLE over here, once you take the wrong exit, that's it. Anyway, after several desperate calls to Clive we managed to find our way back near to where he was - he ran out of the office, jumped in the car and directed us to the mall!
What a relief - an hour late! We took the girls for lunch and loo breaks first then set off to find HIM! I have to say, this was a fantastic grotto - full of moving things to keep the girls amused while they waited. When we got in, the room was so welcoming with a roaring (fake) fire, beautiful tree and of course a wonderfully realistic Father Christmas who was actually from Finland so had the authentic accent and everything!!
Lydia refused to sit on his knee and started clinging like a limpet to my neck - hence the rather awkward photo of me trying to get in the picture, get Lydia to at least look at the camera (smiling was an absolute certainty that she wouldn't!) and stop her crying!

Still, for 40 dhs (about £6) we got a long chat, the picture, a beautiful teddy (the one next to his foot in the picture) and vouchers for coffee and money off children's meals at Planet Hollywood. A really worthwile visit and made us feel really Christmassy at last!

The other great thing about the visit was that they had an M&S there!!!!!! A tiny food area unfortunately but I still managed to spend loads on essentials like biscuits and honey roasted cashew nuts!!

Fun Day

2006-12-07T18:24:00.000+04:00

Getting used to uploading movie clips now so you'll be inundated with them now! Anyway today was good. Lydia's local friend Madeline will be 3 on Saturday so today we took them to Lamcy Plaza which has a children's play area. It's lovely there - quite old fashioned which I like. It has a toy supermarket with mini trollies and pretend food to buy, sandpit area, water activity, ball pit, climbing frames - LOADS!!

It's always quiet there too as it's not in one of the modern malls so people tend to go to the glitzy ones instead where it gets packed.

Took this footage which makes me laugh - Madeline is completely at home here and smiles a lot but typically Lydia, who I have to say IS enjoying herself, only lets go for a split second to wave and then doesn't smile! She rarely smiles on cue for the camera but ADORES looking at photos of herself and gets me to play the movie clips of herself over and over again!!

There are face paints as well, hence the colours and the male voice you can hear is Madeline's Dad Shaun - he and his wife Debbie are really wonderful and come from GUILDFORD!!!! What a small world!

Lydia Reading

2006-12-03T15:40:00.000+04:00

WALL

2006-12-02T09:14:00.000+04:00

All you with children know it's when they're quiet that you need to worry. So, there I was, drying my hair and calling out to Lydia every now and then who was playing on the landing. I even took the time to straighten my hair as I was going out with friends (more on that in a minute).

Anyway, finished my hair and walked out to find this masterpiece from my daughter:

I think it's a face - she's actually really good at drawing 2 eyes a nose and a mouth in the correct place and normally I would be as thrilled with this creation if it were not ON THE WALL!!!!! We rent this villa so it was even more important to get it off!
I tried milk on a cloth first as that's what Kim and Aggie recommend for crayon on a radiator - no joy. Then I surfed the web and found this FAB website http://www.ehow.com/ which is basically info on how to do almost anything! So, I searched on crayon on walls and the advice was to heat the area with a hairdryer then rub with a tumble dryer sheet which I did - actually I changed to a baby wipe and it WORKED!!!! The hairdryer melts the crayon wax then you just rub it off - genius and a tip I thought worth sharing!

Anyway, back to my day out. Clive is at the Rugby 7's today (he doesn't even like rugby) with Chris and Ron. So, they all babysat yesterday while Inga, Marie and I did brunch here http://www.madinatjumeirah.com/al_qasr/arboretum/
It was gorgeous! All you can eat and drink - fruit mocktails for me! I had LOADS to eat and we all really enjoyed it!
Today all the 'rugby widows' were going to have a picnic in the park with te children but it's raining quite heavily!! So we're going to the play area in the mall instead. It's quite nice when it rains - fresh air at last so all the bedroom windows are open and getting a nice old airing!

Scan and Ainsley!

2006-11-30T17:44:00.000+04:00

Well, here he/she is! 10 weeks old and moving around loads. Not the greatest of pictures - some of the screen shots were brilliant but typically the printed ones were rubbish!

Never mind, all looks good and bean II is 3.5cms long already.

After the scan we went to the Ideal Home Show! It's just the same as the UK version although LOADS smaller and not as many interesting stalls.

Ainsley Harriott was due to do some cooking demos though so I was very interested in that - Imagine my surprise then when we'd just got there and saw him at a book signing!! I was very excited as I love cooking from his books - always comes out well! Anyway, in the flesh he was a really smashing bloke. He chatted to all the people there and wrote something individually in each book, taking the time to listen and laugh with each person. I'm sure not all so-called celebs really bother doing that - here's my signing:

It says "To Lesley Happy tongue titillations, Clive and Lydia can't wait!! Love Ainsley Harriott" He wrote that as I told him how much Clive enjoys the chilli meatballs I make from his book!

We watched him later do a live version of Ready Steady Cook which was great!

Then whilst walking round we said hello to Linda Barker (bit up herself if you ask me). Then later on I saw Laurence Llewellyn Bowen so a real famous day!

To top it all, the property company has replaced the dead palm tree at the back of our house so at last we can enjoy some nice views!

Sonny Sunshine

2006-11-29T18:27:00.000+04:00

Actually been meaning to put this link up for a while

http://www.justgiving.com/sonnysunshine

My cyber friend Kel has the most gorgeous family and her fourth child Sonny was born with a rare condition called cdLs. Anyway, it doesn't stop him being the smiliest baby ever and lovely to boot but it does impact on his health.

So, please spare any change - every bit helps!

Big Sister!

2006-11-27T18:26:00.000+04:00

Most of you now know our fantastic news but for those whose email I haven't got, or are lurking(!) Lydia is going to be a big sister!
I'm about 10 weeks now so baby is due 25th June 2007. Lydia keeps saying 'baby boy' when asked - I have already been telling her there is a baby in my tummy and she hasn't been at all bothered. A friend lent me some books on telling older siblings about a new baby which she loves me reading to her so that's good.

I've already had a 6 week scan where we saw the heartbeat and have another on Thursday. It's a highly profitable state to be in for local doctors so we've been to the local hospital to ask about prices there. They do a package for appointments and birth which works out to about £700 all in which is better. It also appeals to me to have a baby locally amongst Emerati women - certainly a talking point and if there were any complications, it's the hospital where you get sent to from other private ones anyway so I may as well be in the right place to begin with!

We're hoping to visit home soon after the birth as well as a trip Feb/March depending on when I'd be allowed to fly.

So far it's been ok - the usual sickness is still there but not as bad and has been replaced by extreme tiredness which hits in the afternoon. We're so lucky with Lydia who never complains and is always cheerful - it makes you wonder what the next one will be like! Still, it can't be any worse at nights - Lydia was an awful sleeper for ages so I'm well used to sleep deprivation!

We've also just been granted our licence to buy and consume alcohol - great, just when I can't indulge! Never mind, can't say I fancy it to be honest - I do really miss fish and chips though (Sasha, you did say that!!) Oh to be able to get a take away of battered fish that melts in your mouth with proper chips smothered in salt and vinegar! No cravings as yet. I live in hope though! Never had any with Lydia so it would be interesting to see if I do get any.

So, next steps are to get a proper bed for Lydia so she doesn't feel pushed out of her cot. She still fits in it so comfortably but I think/hope she's ready for a bed now.

Christmas Disco!

2006-11-25T16:37:00.000+04:00

Blimey I'm getting slack - 2 weeks since my last update! Well, Thursday night saw us going to a disco. Not any old disco but Tim Cheddar's Cheesy Disco which was held......OUTSIDE!!!! Can you believe it? It was chilly it has to be said but as soon as the dancing started it soon warmed up! It's cooled down a lot in the day to about 84 but some days are still too hot at times.

I curled my hair for the occasion just to be a bit different!
The music was meant to be a mix from the 70's to the 90's but actually turned out as the majority from the 80's - BLISS!! Loads of tunes from our youth - we had a table and went with friends we've met over here. Inga and her hubbie Chris brought their lovely friend Jo. She's on holiday (went home today I think) here. Marie and Ron - both of whom are complete Peter Kay addicts and knew every song and who sung it from the 80's by short intro alone - contenders for the Tuesday quiz I think! Alison and her hubbie Travers (hope I've spelt that right!). All the women go to my mums and tots group and I feel so happy and lucky to know them as they're real if you know what I mean, not fake like some Dubai people!

It was a Christmas buffet - normally the food at the golf club is excellent and this was, it was just cold which was a shame. We've booked Christmas Day at the golf club so hopefully that will be better. I didn't fancy cooking for just the 3 of us so we're meeting friends and having it all done for us!

Anyway, we were all VERY entertained by this woman on the dance floor. She looked 50 if not older and the spitting image of Aggie from How Clean Is Your House. She danced like she was taking part in Strictly Come Dancing - we couldn't stop looking at her as it was so bizarre to see Latin ballroom dancing to The Nolan's I'm In The Mood For Dancing!!!! I tried to get a picture but none of them did her justice I'm afraid but there is one I got where I had to dance alone so we could pretend the picture was of me!

Some I did take were these:

Ron, Marie and me

You can just about see 'Aggie' on the left!

Travers (just in the picture!) Alison and Inga

Ron, Chris, Clive and half of Travers again!

Another Year Older

2006-11-10T18:52:00.000+04:00

I'm 36 today!!!!! Crikey - so close to 40 it's scary!!
Anyway had a lovely day. This morning we popped to Dubai Marina. They have a market on and I treated myself to a new sun hat. Clive bought me a new purse and we got Lydia a t-shirt with the wording 'Drama Queen'. We then had a burger lunch in Johnny Rockets before heading home.
This afternoon I got my hair cut, had my nails done and am looking forward to a takeaway thai green curry in front of American Survivor on the TV! Then tomorrow, Clive takes me out for a meal!!

Had some lovely cards and presents - thanks to all!! Also had a great chat on Skype with my friend Sue - it was her daughter's Maya's birthday yesterday. My friend Tracy with the twins Charlotte and Daisy have theirs today and Alison's Grace has hers tomorrow so Happy Birthday girlies!!! It has made me more homesick actually.
My friend Jemma started me off with her note about her bonfire party - it just looked so wonderful and cold and fun, I could almost smell the smoke and hear the crackle of the fire! Then the gorgeous Bobbie has finally had Zachary and then I hear from my other lovely friend Mandy.
I've been told it really kicks in at about 6 months. I'm not sobbing into my pillow, don't get me wrong but I really can't get my head around it being nearly Christmas and I just miss my friends!

So, I miss you all, am thinking of you all often and when we do get a date to come home for a visit, rest assured I'll be letting you know in advance so we can arrange some meet ups!!!

Breakfast At The Burj Al Arab

2006-11-02T19:23:00.000+04:00

Tuesday was a special day as I had a ticket for a breakfast at the most famous Dubai hotel - the Burj Al Arab! It was all thanks to my joining ExpatWomen.com which has been great for finding stuff to do and meeting new people.
Anyway, the morning promised a talk from the butlers on what they do, worst guests etc. Unfortunately, it was nothing like that!
The breakfast was ok - nothing hugely special AND I only got 2 cups of tea (gasp!). Then a butler just stood up and told us all to see the presentation they'd laid out on another floor.
We were then 'treated' to several presentations from Virgin Vie consultants on why we should think about starting our own parties at home and I quote 'because I don't know about you ladies, but I used to feel awful when my husband gave me money every month' and also 'I wasn't sure about doing it until I'd spoken to my husband who assured me that as Richard Branson was behind it I had nothing to lose'
I was outraged!! I had paid money for this breakfast only to be patronised that I needed my own money as I obviously relied on my husband and I should speak to him as women are clearly incapable of making up their own minds! I won't go into one BUT I have contributed LOTS to my marriage including money and I don't rely on my husband to provide thank you very much!

Anyway, after I'd calmed down, my friend Inga, Jo and I went for a wander where we finally met the butlers who were fab! This is half the stuff they give away free in the rooms:

I'm talking Hermes toiletries for the ladies, all manner of grooming equipment, soft toys for children, babie's sleep cd, bath stuff AND they have a dedicated menu for pillows so you can choose how you want your head to be rested each night!!

Inga, me and Jo with her eyes closed!

We then went to the restaurant on the highest level and I took this of the Jumeriah Beach Hotel next door - just stunning!

I couldn't resist this shot of the waiter getting the tables ready - I did think the tablecloth was rather creased until he grabbed an iron and proceeded to press it neatly!!

Not a bad morning really but I do miss the cold weather - honestly I do!

Lydia's Picture Post

2006-10-27T10:43:00.000+05:00

On Your Bike!
Watching Shrek in 3D
Yoga by the pool

Eyebrow Update

2006-10-21T10:17:00.000+05:00

Ok, ignore the freckles - before threading:

After threading:
It was more uncomfortable than I anticipated. Not painful as such but I did have a sudden urge halfway to jump up and shout "STOP!!!!!" Results were good though - she didn't need to reshape them as I normally do them myself and I thinkthey're ok to begin with but it did make a difference.

Lydia is getting more of a sense of humour everyday - she still adores reading (well, browsing books as though she is actually reading them!). Here is her chilling position:

I have met a great friend, Inga. We arrived at about the same time and seem to have clicked - it's her passion for gossip magazines and trivia that we share! Anyway, she has a gorgeous daughter, Alice who chats away and is just so lovely - she and Lydia get on as well - Alice is 15 months (I think) and can more than keep up with Lydia - sorry it's a bit blurred but they're stuffing custard creams!!

I'm hoping to pick my car up tonight - Ramadan openings mean they're shut until 8pm. Tonight is our babysitter's night though so we'll probably get the car then get something to eat.

Apologies for short post again but will endeavour to be back soon!

Pictures, Cars and Eyebrows

2006-10-14T16:07:00.000+05:00

I've seen these sorts of artists before in Greenwich Market (big up to Sally!) but this one felt different - this one wrote Lydia's name and even included the Burj Al Arab hotel!!!! The letters are as follows:

L - 2 dolphins
Y - palm trees
D - Burj Al Arab Hotel
I - Bee floating above a flower
A - Flamingo and a jumping dolphin

I'm really pleased with it and Lydia loves it too!

The sad news is that Mum and Dad went home today. Clive got up about 3.30am to take them to the airport and I went down to say Goodbye. It's been wonderful and Lydia is really going to miss them. This was our meal last night at the local golf club:

Brighter news is that we have finally found a cleaner/babysitter. We have been using an agency to do the cleaning once a week but we really wanted a regular babysitter as well. We decided against the idea of live-in, at least for now. Anyway, this lady comes with excellent references - I called her previous employer and she was most encouraging. So, from tomorrow she will clean every Sunday and Wednesay for 3 hours and babysit every Tuesday and Saturday. For us this will be fantastic - there is a quiz night every Tuesday at the local golf club so we can have lovely food, enjoy the quiz and meet new people. The other night we plan on cinema trips, dinner out or even just browsing the shops - such freedom!!!

I'm off to get my eyebrows threaded for the very first time today - it's used instead of waxing or plucking. I normally tweezer my own but thought I'd give it a go - I've taken a before shot of one eye so you can see the difference!

Oh and the other big news - I've bought a car!!!!! I've been driving a hired Jeep which is great but a bit rough and ready. It also doesn't have rear air con which is a must to keep Lydia cool. Anyway, I've bought a second hand Toyota Prado which is massive but SO necessary to have a big car out here they way they drive! It's from a proper dealer so they've done all the checks, fitted new tyres and will take off the scratches and valet it. As soon as I get it I'll post a picture - got to do the hassle of transferring my money from the UK first!

Photos!

2006-10-09T15:07:00.000+05:00

Lydia decorating her very first sandcastle on the beach!

Walking into the bath with Grandad (that's how hot the sea is!!)

Discussing the decorating with Nanny

Enjoying our first Iftaar (fast break)

A Response

2006-10-08T13:04:00.000+05:00

Just a very short message to all those lovely people that have taken the time to comment on my blog. I also include in that group the lovely person who was kind enough to leave a note telling me how disgusted she was at my blog and that I was bragging about my apparent disrespect on her religious month. I would just like to respond (if you did bother to come and revist). As I said, I respect the local culture - I dress appropriately in public, I don't eat during Ramadan in public and I am my normal sociable self to everyone I see.
As I have been born and raised in a democratic society, that is welcoming to all religions, cultures and beliefs, I welcome your opinion. I apologise that you feel I have disrespected you and I am glad that you have visited my blog to express your views as after all, that is freedom of speech, democracy and something I am used to.
Perhaps if you do visit again you will gain more information about how an individual expat feels, rather than lumping us all together.

I have faced many challenges over our move here and no, I didn't want to come - My husband was relocated here and is working to increase the economy of this place as was the intention of asking people from abroad to work here. I am trying to be positive and am working very hard at understanding the culture here and in that I include rude people who ignore me when I ask them most politely if they'd mind moving their trolley at the supermarket, mad drivers who seem to think that the use of indicators, brake and general good roadsmanship is for others and those that look down on me because I don't employ a maid to do my shopping, look after my daughter or trail after me in the shopping malls looking miserable.

Peace to all who read this and welcome to anyone I have not had the pleasure of meeting before!

Brief!

2006-09-30T20:25:00.000+05:00

Massive congratulations to my wonderful friend Cathy on the safe arrival (at last!) of the beautiful Freya Rose - a sister for Samuel!!

Mum and Dad's visit is going well - we took them to the Burj Al Arab (or Berg Al Arabia as Mum calls it) and had a wonderful afternoon tea. Rooms cost from £1000 per night and an you believe they have 2 residential guests who live there!!! The money some people have. Actually we didn't know but there'd been a murder there 2 nights before between Russian and Syrian diamond dealers - all very James Bondish!
We did the Big Bus tour round the city which was good but very hot. It's hard at lunchtimes trying to find places open - we did today find a nice place which ushered us in then closed the door behind us to ensure no passing Muslim was offended by the sight of us eating. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for respecting local customs but I do find it ridiculous that EVERYWHERE closes when it's so easy to put a screen up or simply cover the windows. Expats do make up 80% of the population here so you'd think there'd be a bit more leniency. Ramadam damn we've started calling it!

Dad has also been struck by real flu - so bad last night we had to call the doctor but he's a million times better today.

So, just a short update but will be back anon with pictures soon!

Booze!!

2006-09-22T20:14:00.000+05:00

On the 20th of this month (Wednesday) Clive and I celebrated 4 years of marriage. Such a short time for what feels like forever and I mean that in the most positive way!
I feel like I've always known him, he is someone I am comfortable enough to be myself with including farting!
We had karaoke at our wedding and sang "I Got You Babe" by Sonny and Cher as our opening number. Unfortunately the disco was by a couple of REALLY old timers so our list of R 'n' B, dance and classic tunes didn't get played as they'd never heard of them (so much for supplying a list beforehand then!!).
Our first dance was "Let's Stay Together" by Al Green and despite promising ourselves we'd dance properly, we ended up doing the obligatory shuffle round in a circle!!!
We didn't want any cheesy songs at the end either so opted for the fab "My First, My Last, My Everything" by Barry White - awesome!!

Stupid Blogger won't let me add the picture I have of us from that day - all the other pics are on a disc somewhere in a box! Never mind, I shall post this one instead:

We had a good day today. Found the shop that sells alcohol - a MASSIVE thing as you need a licience to buy from the official outlets here. This shop neither asks for the licience (we're still waiting for ours) nor is an official shop. It was packed!!! It's closed for a month from Sunday as it's Ramadan out here so everyone was getting their stash. Ramadan means no eating or drinking in the day - including expats. No singing or dancing (cos I do that in public obviously) and no tight clothing.
Got my mum and dad arriving on Monday so we will have to be clever in finding ways to entertain them without causing any offence. We are taking them for tea at the Burj Al Arab and they're still doing it but on the 18th floor - fine, except my mum has a phobia about lifts!!!!
The evenings won't be a problem as that is the fast breaking and most places hold special Arabic feasts so we'll no doubt attend one of those to stuff our faces!

The lawn is managing to hold on in there, despite us having no outside tap working so we have to connect the hose in the kitchen and run it through the house. It'll be worth it in the end!

Overdue Update

2006-09-12T20:25:00.000+05:00

Finally got round to getting some new photos updated! Yesterday we had the garden done. I should say teeny patch of sand done - it's nothing much but enough in this heat! They use 'plug-in' grass - they literally plugged little tufts into holes poked in the sand. Apparently it should take easily then spread out to make a lawn. It's not fab quality grass but who cares?

Here are the before and after shots:

The fertiliser they used for the grass STINKS! It really is awful so I hope that goes soon. The water is also not working outside so we have to connect the hose to the tap in the kitchen in an attempt to water the grass to keep it alive!

We've been working hard at trying to make the villa a home and I must say I feel really settled - it helps having our own furniture of course. Again, some before and after shots:

Sitting Room Before:

After - needs tidying and the stereo still needs unpacking but we'll get there! (note the Arabic subtitles on the TV! Luckily not every show has them otherwise I'd go demented!)

Family Area Upstairs Before:

After now complete with my beloved books!

Lydia's Room (I didn't take a before shot for some reason)

We're off to register at the local doctor tomorrow - they've opened a new one on our estate and he's British so always easier to make things understood. Other things are going ok but slowly - loads of things we take for granted in the UK have to be paid for out here so although it's tax-free, there are costs. Things like driving licence, attestation of marriage and birth certificates have to be paid for that sort of thing.

Anyway, will keep this brief as it's taken me so long to upload the pics - I need to eat!

Still Alive and Still HOT!

2006-09-06T20:16:00.000+05:00

I cannot believe how long it's been since my last blog update!! So much has been happening - just feel free to leave if you find the updates too much!!

Weather here is still incredibly hot - it cools down around September supposedly but it's still very humid and yesterday we even experienced our first sandstorm! That was weird, Lydia and I were in the pool (our usual afternoon exercise!) when I joked the sky looked as though it were going to rain. Then, sand EVERYWHERE!! Everyone just ran for cover. Lydia and I were the last to leave as I was frantically trying to cover her face, pick up buckets, armbands and get myself decent before rushing home!!

The house is slowly coming together. Lydia's room is just about finished and I'm really pleased with it - it's not a baby's room anymore (not that it ever really was at home). The only thing left to change is to get a bed instead of a cot but I think we'll wait a while yet - she's only just settled back into sleeping through after the various moves and disruptions so I don't want to give her something else to get worked up about! I'll take a picture tomorrow.

The new bed for the spare room arrived today ready for my Mum & Dad who will be coming out soon - so excited!
The office is also complete - hence the blog updates! It's so nice to be back at a proper desk typing away, feel as though I have my arm back!

The walls are lovely and blank in the villa with really high ceilings. It's good putting up various pictures. We bought a gorgeous wall hanging the other day - it's actually a Burmese design so fits in with Clive very well! Elephants are on the design so no camels at the moment but I'm sure we'll amend that soon and get some local crafts in! There's a place called Karama which has all the dodgy sellers like fake watches, handbags and the like. I stocked up on bags last time but I've heard they do a great alarm clock that is shaped like a mosque and the alarm sound is the call to prayer - just gotta have that one!!! There is a small mosque on site here bit we only hear the callings faintly/ I quite like it - I find it very soothing - bit strange when you first here it in the shopping malls but you get used to it!

I've also used a couple of local cleaners (I can't bring myself to call them Maids even though that's what they call themselves). They work together but only charge the single price (£3 per hour - unbelievable). Anyway, one of them is looking for accommodation. In return, she'll give 3 hours, 3 times a week plus evening babysitting for free so she can then go and complete her other part time jobs. We're seriously thinking about it. It would be so lovely to have a live in babysitter that Lydia knew and the fact she wouldn't be full time eases my guilt and makes it less claustrophobic. She's got to come back to us with her references and visa details so I'll let you know!

Other lovely things are the nail bars - I get my manicure and pedicure combined for about £15, absolute bargain! Other things are not so cheap but all in all it's not bad.
I know everyone goes on about tax free earnings but there are hidden taxes - nothing is free in this world!

I carry a laminated sheet around in my purse that gives me all the money rates and UK prices - I make it look like a shopping list so people don't laugh at me! It's great though so I can see just how expensive certain things are (£4 for a butternut squash anyone?!) Still, it's so nice to have someone immediately pack your bags at the checkout or even carry your basket while you browse (thanks ELC!)

Lydia has now had all her wonderful birthday presents. My Aunt and Cousin included money in their gifts and had even thoughtfully sent it in Dirhams, the local currency so Lydia and I had a great time buying lots from the ELC including a brilliant art set - she loves to paint and this has a mat for the table so helping with any stray brush strokes!
My sister got her a till which bleeps when you 'scan' things so she has great fun playing shops!

I've managed to get to the local Mums and Tots group. Actually it's about 20 mins away but I took a wrong turning. The roads here are very hard to fathom and it meant I ended up all the way home. I was determined to get there though so duly turned back round and got there after an hour. By this time, there was only 15 mins left of play so Lydia had just started to enjoy herself when I had to get her home again! Poor thing, still at least I know where it is now for next week. It did mean we got another invite that day to another tots get together so I'm looking forward to that. I'm quite ok at meeting new people - it's trying to get rid of the boring ones or nasty people you realise only when you've got to know them I find hard!!!

I think I've babbled enough for now - I will update with pictures soon though, once I get back into my flow!

Happy Birthday My Darling Girl!!!!!

2006-08-23T23:17:00.000+05:00

It's arrived!!!! Lydia Rose Cully is 2 today -HURRAH!!!!

After realising that our shipment wouldn't arrive in time for Lydia to spend her birthday in the new villa, I felt glad I'd packed most of her cards and a few presents to give her. Most of her gifts from my Mum and sisters are in the ship so she'll have to wait for those - it means she'll be like the Queen though and have 2 birthdays - I'm sure she won't mind!

Anyway, after her milk, we sang her Happy Birthday which lit up her face then gave her the presents! I'd bought her a special birthday hat to wear in the shape of a cake complete with candles which of course she refused to wear!

I'm NOT wearing THAT!!!!

She got some lovely gifts (so far - more to come!) including a terrific DVD from my gorgeous friend Cath and Sam which she LOVES!

Cards with a Sunny skyline!

Unfortunately Clive finally got the date for his medical so his residency can be confirmed so we couldn't miss the appointment - another reason for us to celebrate another day!!! We took Lydia for a lovely lunch though at the Grand Hyatt Hotel. She then had a long sleep so when she woke, we all went to the Mall of The Emirates where they have a fab children's area - complete with carousel (thinking of you on that one Sal!!)

Calling home! Lydia shares her birthday with her Nanny so Happy Birthday to my Mum too!!!!

What can I say about this girl who has changed my life? She is the most precious, gorgeous, cheeky, wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. I was never one who longed for a baby - even the night she was born I went to sleep quite happily without feeling the need to gaze at her all night. Slowly though, that feeling has morphed into something I find hard to explain - I would kill for her, die for her and do anything in my power to protect her as long as I live. I feel truly blessed that someone as amazing as she is my daughter.

Lydia has shown my capacity for patience, fierce love and complete forgiveness. I think I have felt every single emotion through her including jealousy when others held her when she was born. In the 2 years, 9 months and 2 weeks since Lydia has been part of my life, I have changed, she has changed and we have both grown - physically, mentally and emotionally.

I could go on but as most of you are my birth friends, you know what this feeling is like! I just thank God for my little china doll, Daddy's pumpkin and our little angel sent from Heaven - you are loved completely, in fact you are loved Truly, Madly and Deeply as the title of one of my favourite films says!

ARRRRGGHHH - I want my STUFF!

2006-08-17T21:41:00.000+05:00

Today sees my first ever Dubai hangover!!!! I went out with 2 other expat women last night. We started off in Bar 44 - a bar on, you've guessed it, the 44th floor of the wonderful Grovesnor House Hotel. We then went to the Buddha Bar downstairs - an amazing place that is so richly decorated with the largest Buddha statue I've seen - the only problem is it's so dark in there! We then went on to the Madinat which is a lovely small shopping mall but has bars and restaurants. By this time a full meal was out so we had bar snacks - not enough for me so I ordered an extra 2 portions! Anyway, I came home and was ill I'm afraid! Never mind, I can't remember the last time I was so boozed!

Many thanks for all the comments on Lydia - she is loads better and I am choosing to ignore the doctor on her weight. As you've all said, she is completely in proportion, always energetic, lively and happy. She has always been on the petite size and I'm sure she'll be happy of that when she's older! Out of interest, she's about 34 inches high and just under 21lbs. At 25lbs, Sylvie Sausage sounds perfect Kel! Al, I agree with your Dr too about whatever they are like at 2 - I do tend to think they are a bit over zealous here - they are all private so I suppose it's in their interest to show concern, however unwanted!

Bad news of the day though - our shipment should have arrived in port yesterday ready to be delivered to the villa on Sunday. Now they say there has been a delay and it 'should' arrive in port on 20th and then be delivered after that. So, it means another week and a half in the flat, Lydia will have to celebrate her birthday here and I have to survive on the few sets of clothes I bought with me, thinking it wasa only going to be a short stay. Dubai time means always adding on to whatever you're told - be it minutes, days or in this case, a week!

Many thanks Cath - the parcel has arrived and is safely hidden from curious fingers! Also Ess- card is here! I have still not sorted out how to actually post anything here so Joe is going to get an e-card - really lazy of me but I will be thinking of him tomorrow!

Been to a pool club this evening. It's attached to the more established housing complex here, The Lakes and is gorgeous. I really want to join one now as it means easy access to a good pool, food and drinks!

Sorry this is such a short update - I will do another soon with photos but now I'm off for a bath before settling down with a nice cup of tea with my man and watching an episode of The Shield on DVD!!!

Not Very Well

2006-08-13T21:52:00.000+05:00

Well, we've now discovered what the local doctors are like. Lydia has not been herself for a few days now and she has had blisters breaking out round her mouth and 2 ulcers on her tongue. We decided to see what the local doctor was like. Everything here is private apart from a few state hospitals (which by all accounts are excellent). We have full medical insurance so took her to the local clinic yesterday which also offers botox and breast enlargements!

The doctor was lovely and it was so refreshing to have a proper consultation as opposed to the rushed 5 minutes I 'm used to at home. He checked her temperature, throat, ears and chest. Normally Lydia is fascinated by this sort of thing but she screamed and clung to me like a limpet throughout. He has diagnosed a slight ear infection, low immune system and a slight temperature. She has now been prescribed oral spray, antibiotics and some throat drops - not easy to administer any of them to a 2 year old! He also gave saline drops for her nose which I haven't felt the need to use and recommended we switch to formula milk to build her up - yet again a dotor is concerned over her weight. Clive was there though so at least he could see the genetics! We id get the milk but Lydia refuses to drink it - we're therefore sticking to the cows milk - as soon as she gets over this I'm hoping her appetite will improve and everything will sort itself out.

We have to go back Tuesday where hopefully Lydia will be in a better frame of mind so he can weigh her and measure her and compare against the charts - I did eplain she's always been below so he will use the chrt for height comparison, not age. I'll also take in all her records and red health book so he can see.

So, not much else going on apart from a poorly girl who is crying lots as she doesn't know what to do with herself and wants constant cuddles. In the meantime we did have some light relief - Clive has treated himself to a new digital video camera with some of his birthday money and filmed this - enjoy!

Just click on it to play - hope it works!

A Little Bit of Dish, A Little Bit of Dash!

2006-08-09T19:25:00.000+05:00

Hello!
First of all - I've 'borrowed' the weathergirl idea from Jemma - hope you don't mind! It's a good guage to show you all how hot it is over here and that's obviously me in the swimsuit - !!!!!!!

Things are still going well. Yesterday was an ordeal though. We went to the villa as we'd arranged for all our white goods to be delivered. What we didn't realise though is that they are delivered by make of the item so it's not one large lorry turning up, but several at varying times in the day - it meant we couldn't wait any longer than 5pm so had the dishwasher left until today - more on that one later!
Anyway, we also had 2 men arrive to fix the water that hadn't been working properly. Whilst they were working, the gas man called - all the gas is in bottles here so you need it delivered. What we didn't realise though is that the man who fitted it was someone just driving by and not the man we'd arranged so we ended up paying a bit more than quoted.
No real problem BUT while all this was going on, Clive had (very stupidly)left his mobile phone on the doorstep. He couldn't get a signal inside and as we were waiting for calls from each delivery driver we needed a signal.
Anyway, he went to get the phone and it was GONE!!!! Stolen - can you believe it?
His fault but it was a real problem for us - it's his work phone/palm/diary everything so was a real loss. He drove off to security who very seriously took our details and advised us to call the police which we did on my phone. He turned up - laughed at Clive for being so stupid and advised us to go to the station to file a report which we planned to do after the deliveries had all finished.
The gas man was still hanging around, listening avidly to the police and security ao I asked him to continue with the fitting of the gas. This is when I encountered the local views on women i.e. completely ignore them as if they weren't there. To my shame I actually clicked my fingers to get his attention(!) said 'I'm the boss, now fit that gas please now' to which the security guy spoke harslhy to the gas man who started work.
They all ask for 'the boss' meaning the man - I, apparently, am best for showing how the cooker works and which detergent to use in the new washing machine (green Ariel apparently - it'll have to make do with Tesco's own I bought with me for the time being though!)
We had lunch from the local Pizza Hut, kept Lydia amused in an empty house with no chairs, opened the door for the fridge delivery and lo and behold, there was CLive's phone sitting back on the doorstep, very sandy and dusty but all in order! AMAZING!!!! We think the thief must have seen all the commotion and decided it wasn't worth it - either that or the screensaver of a grinning Lydia appealed to his better side!

After all that we had been invited to the guy Clive has just employed for a bbq which was much needed and very tasty! The dishwasher duly arrived today - can't be fitted as the space is too small. It never stops does it?! The delivery man said he'd delivered to lots of villas in our area and the machine itself and the space are standard size - ours, however is too small so now we have to wait for the landlord to sort out a handyman to plane the side down a bit to fit the blasted thing!

I met 2 women today I'd met through the expat woman website. They also have children although Lydia was the eldest by 2 months. We went to the soft play area at the Mall of The Emirates - a HUGE shopping mall that has its own ski slope - completely hysterical watching the people ski down in their padded snow suits over their dishdasha (Arabic men's white gown) and hijab (wome's black gowns) !! In fact I bought a dishdasha outfit for Rodney, Lydia's dog she now favours over cheeky monkey :

I'm meeting one of the women next week for the mums & tots group and am already feeling good about having said hello to someone other than Clive!

I'm also feeling more confident being out with Lydia on my own. I've been very careful about wearing discreet clothing but men stare whatever you wear - it's just getting used to it and as long as I continue to be respectful it'll be fine! The website I've been on has had 'sightings' of a woman shopping in her costume with a transparent tunic over the top - ok for a beach in Spain maybe but not an Arabic, Muslim country like Dubai, however Western it first appears!!

Can I also apologise to those that leave such lovely comments when I don't on theirs (namely Barb!) I aim to remedy this error - my blog details need updating to be sure! If you want me to add your blog link to mine kind readers, please contact me! WONDERFUL to hear from you too Cath - I was thinking about Sam on his big day and missing you HEAPS!!!

Finally, some shots of Lydia trying out the shampoo shield I bought her - complete waste of course as she won't wear it in the bath but has discovered it makes a good ruff and frisbee!!

Happy Birthday Clive!!!!!!!

2006-08-05T18:25:00.000+05:00

Happy 36th birthday Clivey!!!!!! We had presents and cards in bed this morning - I'd hidden some that people had given me before we left so Clive had a lovely surprise opening them all! Lydia helped of course!

Tried to do a family shot - my ead just looks huge and red and Clive has a million chins but Lydia of course came out perfect!

We had a fairly quiet day - did some food shopping. I drove yesterday for the first time. I've never driven on the 'other' side of the road before but I did ok and feel better about attempting it again!

Went swimming this afternoon in the apartments pool - Lydia hates us holding her and just bobs about and kicks away - she loves her armbands!

Clive had forgotten it was his birthday today poor thing so he's invited a work colleague for supper with his wife. I'm just doing a simple salmon dish we both like - I'm sure they'll like it too - oh and we have alcohol courtesy of same couple!!!!!

Sorry about the pixels on this one - I've been trying to put pics on via photobucket as blogger is soooooo slow but I sized this one wrong!

Views, Driving and Ikea!!!

2006-08-03T19:53:00.000+05:00

Thought you might like to see the view from our apartment here at the Marina!

I tried to take some last night as it looks at its best then but the air is so heavy at the moment they just came out blurred. The construction seems to go on all night - there is always a hum of activity. We did see the workers being collected by bus last night - there were hundreds of men waiting patiently by the roadside. It's strange because when you look, they appear to be standing still or just looking at whatever work they should be doing - you never actually see much work but these amazing buildings are springing up everywhere so they're obviously working hard when we don't see them!

This area is slowly being filled by tenants but you have to navigate through the building site to get anywhere. Speaking of which - driving! I haven't driven yet and to be honest, am putting it off as long as I can. Clive has been great at coping - I have always been the navigator anyway as he is HOPELESS at looking at signs. Hence yesterday we got very badly lost - not because of my map reading I hasten to add! The turn-offs out here are like mini spaghetti junctions - when you think you're going straight over the road suddenly twists apon itself and you end up going in a completely different direction - it's going to take a lot of getting used to!

We went to our villa yesterday - it was supposed to have been cleaned before we move in but like most things out here, unless you hassle constantly it'll never get done - after several calls the cleaner came today. I'm still going to have to do it properly myself though - one bucket of dettol stinking water does not do a whole villa in my opinion, despite what the cleaner might think!

Anyway we had a look round properly yesterday. The local supermarket was a great surprise. I was expecting something tiny with high prices but it is really good and even sells white goods for the kitchen. The meat counter was a relief too. I have been reading that local food is often full of pesticides and organic is very hard to come by. The meat in the shop though is all from New Zealand so I can be happy buying that. I'm used to paying more at the local butchers so I'm more than happy paying more for reliable food!

Anything imported is more expensive obviously so I'm going to have to watch what I get. I did have a look at the milk and noticed 3 different women buying the same brand so we'll have that too! How sad am I?!

We had another good day today. We managed to drive safely to....IKEA!!!!! It's not been open that long but it was great to be able to pick up a few bits for the new house! We also need a bed for the spare room for visitors so will browse the catalogue later - they deliver free so that's good. In fact, the supermarket where we're getting the white goods from deliver free, install them and take the packaging away all free and within 2 days of ordering - now that's GOOD!

To answer some questions as well. We're 3 hours ahead at the moment from the UK. This moves to 4 hours in the winter when your clocks change - they don't change here!

No, we haven't managed to have a proper toast yet - we stupidly forgot to buy some alcohol at the airport so now have to rely on a friend to get some for us before we get residency. We need to apply for a licience from the police in order to buy alcohol but apparently a lot of people use a middle man who'll get it no questions asked - that's a Lesley deal!!

I've made some contacts locally through a terrific website for expat women. There are so many people moving here that there is a constant supply of information and questions! This site organises mums & tots groups, social evenings and loads more so I'll be kept busy hopefully.

Went to my favourite hotel, Grosvenor House today. It's where we stayed the very first time we came here and we made some lovely friends here. Lydia and I used the pool daily and got to know the boys there really well who now take care of us when we visit - we're not really allowed to use the pool as we don't stay there but the doorman is a great friend as are the pool guys and they all welcome us and spoil us! So much so I went to the salon there for my manicure and pedicure (£15 what a bargain!) while Clive and Lydia sat by the pool enjoying complimentary ice creams!!

It's the weekend tomorrow so Clive will go to sort out residency on Sunday - their Monday if you're still with me! Then he can sponsor me and Lydia and then we can really get things moving.

More news as it happens my lovelies!!

We've arrived in Our New Home(ish)!

2006-07-31T21:48:00.000+05:00

Greetings from Dubai! We're now fully unpacked in our temporary flat until our container arrives around 5th August - it will then depend on the mood of the local customs officer how long it will take to release and actually get into our new villa.
The packing went very smoothly - so quick and amazing to watch. Literally everything was parcelled up and made the house look as though I'd been mega successful on ebay with loads of stuff ready to post! In this picture you can see my hand on the left, swamped by a pile of stuff!

This shot of the kitchen shows just how neat they were at piling up everything - those sharp eyed people might be able to make out Lydia's Little Tikes Coupe car
at the front!

Before the truck carrying the container arrived, our wordly goods were placed on the drive, ready to be loaded:

Then the truck arrived - we only needed a 20 foot container, small by most standards and there was plenty of room left:

Then it was time to say Goodbye to our container! Lydia was at my parents while this was all happening of course - she was enjoying herself on the beach while we were busy making cups of tea, calling utilities for final bills and organising a full clean before the tenants arrive!

I didn't feel sad really - I suppose because in essence it is still our house, it wasn't like a final thing. We were able to set off then to my parents Friday afternoon before our flight on Sunday. We had a lovely couple of days where I got a bit coloured by the sun on the beach (stupid me made light of the wind which just went ahead and burnt me). My sister Delena put on a barbecue where Lydia revelled in George and Mollie's new trampoline. Typical - I used to take her on a Friday where she'd shy at the edge and not bounce but get her playing with her cousins and she's away!!
Sunday loomed all too soon. Last minute packing of last bits and bobs, worries about heavy suitcases (we were fine) and final instructions to mum about paying final bills and we all set off. Dad drove my car and we actually got to use one of the extra seats (it's a 7 seater but they fold away)! My sister Ruth had got up early to wave us off - a HUGE deal for her as she hates getting up early. My other sister Delena came with us - she didn't tell George or Mollie as they's have wanted to come.
Anyway, the traffic was virtually non-existent and we got to Heathrow in record time. Terminal 4 is always packed with people and Sunday was no exception. Luckily we were told to get into the shorter queue as we had Lydia - unfortunately the only people in font of us had dodgy passports and so we were waiting far longer than we thought we would have to. In the meantime my Aunt and Uncle arrived to wave us off as did Jay and Dean - friends of ours and a massive, wonderful surprise that started my tears!
After that it was a bit of a whirl - we had an hour left and so decided it was best to go throught to departures which meant saying goodbye properly. Delena started crying first which then set me off! Poor Lydia just looked bewildered as I sobbed my way round my family hugging them and telling them I loved them.

A final bout of tears and waves saw us through where I managed to compose myself. We got on the plane only to be told some people had 'lost' members of their family and so their luggage would have to be removed before we could take off - how can you 'lose' someone?!
Champagne was £5 for a teeny bottle so we settled for sparkling wine to toast ourselves!!
Lydia was fantastic on the flight. Delena had wrapped little gifts for her to open including books with blank faces where you fill in with stickers to create strange looking people - she loved it!

So, anyway, we're here. The flat overooks the Marina and in all honesty is one huge building site. The driver last night couldn't even find it as it's all so new and still being built. So far today we've managed to drive to the local supermarket, survive walking in temperatures of around 112 F and swim in the pool. Not bad for our first day! I imagine it'll all hit me in about 3 weeks when I realise we're not on holiday after all, and that this is now our home.

Until then, I'll try and blog as often as I can - missing you all already!

Bloody Hell - This is My Last Week in Blighty!!!!

2006-07-22T22:13:00.000+05:00

Thanks to all the comments again!
Sasha - brilliant idea about the visitors folder - it'll be full of desert safaris and shopping in the souks (markets!)
Clare - you are so sweet but really, I can be hideous, just avoid me at PMT time!!
Sam - I spread the friends out so I look as though I have millions! SNORT!!!

Also just wanted to send my love to Karen - I'm thinking of you and here for you!

Anyway, last 2 days have really sorted my poor head out - I'm talking admin! I detest phoning people and advising on moving house is horrible, the fact we're moving abroad is even worse. Actually 99% of companies have been brilliant and are sending final bills or changing my contact address to mums. Child benefit will stop, I won't be entitled - fair enough so tell me WHY do they have to have my Dubai address?? I've had to give them the work one for Clive.
They don't have postal addresses, just PO boxes. We'll only get a personal one once residency is confirmed when we get there - Clive has applied and once his is agreed, he can then sponsor myself and Lydia.
It just makes me sound really dodgy when they ask for an address and I have to explain the situation - especially as we do have a villa number, street and normal sounding address, it just doesn't get mail!

Oh well, only a few people to contact now and the HUGE list in my 'To Do' book has been gradually crossed off with satisfying long pen strokes!

We're trying to sell my car too - actually we'll need it for my Dad to drive us to the airport as we won't fit anything in his car. I paid £19,200 for it only 10 months ago, fully expecting it to be a family car for future children and one to have for years. The fact then that I'm a) having to sell it at all is galling as I ADORE the car (Vauxhall Zafira) and b) the fact that the garage has offered £13,000 but say they actually don't want it as sales are slow at the moment is even worse! My poor Dad is going to have to try and sell it for me and I was hoping to leave as little mess for my parents as possible, they're already doing so much for us.

Never mind, everything happens for a reason so something will turn up.

Found a terrific website just now with loads of stuff for travel with children. It's got loads of different company products specifically for things you might need on a journey. I found just the thing I wanted - it's a travel bag for the car seat - ingenious! Knowing how they care so much at the airports for your personal effects (hah!) I thought this was ideal. Not sure how much luggage we're going to end up with but I'm trying to keep it down as much as possible to try and avoid huge extra charges. Most things are obviously being shipped but we still won't get that stuff for a few weeks so we need to survive. I'm trying to take just a few toys for Lydia but enough to entertain her for a while - we can go swimming most days anyway with any luck so that's always good fun!

We're staying in a 2 bed aprtment for the first few weeks until our furniture arrives - it's fully furnished and has a cleaner twice a week (yay!). They even provide a car rental and a welcome basket of food for us including milk for Lydia so we don't need to panic on the first day!

Indian takeaway tonight - I'm doing ok at keeping the food down as well. WE're having a roast tomorrow and that should only leave a few bits and bobs that I can get rid of or give away!

Eeeek - Time is Running Out!!

2006-07-20T22:49:00.000+05:00

Hello!! Busy/manic/tired as ever! This update may be long so I apologise in advance for anyone who has better things to do than read it!

First of all HUGE congrats to Kell for the safe delivery of Sonny Jim! He is gorgeous and a fab addition to a wonderful family!

Anyway, the round of farewells continue! Sunday was a lovely day - one of my postnatal friends Tracy held a barbecue in honour of our leaving and to celebrate Lydia's birthday. Tony her husband was amazing and produced some gorgeous food from the bbq while Tracy excelled herself with MOUNDS of roast potatoes I could have eaten all night long, salads, bread, strawberries, melon etc etc - I can't name it all! It was a fabulous day though so many thanks to her! Here is a shot of Lydia enjoying her food with friends Maya and Gracie:

Tracy also spoiled us with some wonderful gifts including a set of Angel cards for me - they're like tarot cards but have only positive messages. I have tried them out and they are eerily accurate!

Monday was our last day at Teddies Group so I took the women who run it some flowers as a thanks. Lydia has really enjoyed the group and for me it's been terrific on a Monday to start the weeek off with a good morning! That afternoon we went to see our antenatal friends Cathy and Mandy. As I've said before, Lydia, Samuel and Holly have really grown up together so they are all really comfortable with each other. This pic was just a bit too sunny to show Sam properly but at least they're together!

Tuesday evening was my last night out - went with my antenatal friends to The Olive Tree. We went there for our Christmas do and it didn't let us down! I had char grilled squid followed by seared tuna and chilli with creme brulee for dessert - WONDERFUL!!! I really enjoyed myself and probably bored the others with my non-stop, slighty merry, talking! I do tend to gabble when I've had a few wines - normally I shout (According to Clive) but no-one shushed me so I presume all was well in terms of volume!!

Then yesterday was a visit from Granny & Grandpa, Clive's parents. Lydia loves to copy so her Grandpa did lots of silly walks and faces which she loved copying! Clive was in charge of the pictures hence no pics of Granny for some reason!

We got a call from the Managing Agents we've been in touch with as well. They'd only been the day before for a chat, we haven't even signed a contract yet but they arranged 2 viewings for potential tenants!

The first were 3 graduates who were really sweet and I had a good vibe from immediately. Secondly was a woman with her 2 children who was so excited and gasped at everything (including tumble drier for some reason!) she quite wore me out. Anyway, the upshot is that the grads want it!!! Unbelievable, they said it was one of the quickest lettings they'd ever arranged and we STILL haven't signed a contract!!

That is being arranged but to be honest it takes so much worry away knowing the house will be looked after and I can leave sorting some things out like Landlords safety check to the agents!

Today Lydia and I went to my parents - they were originally coming here to help clean but I'm just going to book professional cleaners now to do the whole house and let them worry about it! So, we had a glorious day - went to the beach in the afternoon where Lydia went nude, went in the sea briefly with her Grandad and enjoyed poicking up pebbles, sand and seaweed! There's a local artist on the beach too so I bought a painting to remind us of Hayling Island when we're in Dubai:

The land in the distance is the Isle of Wight and is exactly the view we get from the end of my parents road so I'm thrilled with it! I got a bargain too - was up for £75 so I asked for his best price and he reduced it to £60!

I also gave Mum & Dad my Art Deco dining table and chairs - it originally came from their house when they moved in and the old woman had left it. I LOVE that table but have no place for it in Dubai so at least I know it's going back to a wonderful home. Didn't stop me crying though - bizarre, still controlled over crying with friends but get all emotional over a table!

Clive is out with old work colleagues tonight in London so I'm having a quiet night catching up on Lost and trying to relax!

Cannot belive a week today and the house will be halfway through packed up!

Keys!

2006-07-11T18:17:00.000+05:00

Hello again!

Thanks for all your lovely comments - I really enjoyed the party and yes, getting rid of the bits was brilliant! It made everyone laugh loads - we're not allowed to take most of it and some things, like the garden stuff will be of absolutely no use in the desert!

Cath - I sobbed when my cousin left - he was on his way to another party and I only see him about twice a year anyway, it was just saying Goodbye! Apart from that I cried when my Aunt gave us the book on London then nothing - I have so much to do and think about at the moment that I doubt I'll really let go until the airport - Clive and I have already agreed to have some champagne on the flight - it'll probably be a mix of bubbles and snot for me though!!!!

I had a lovely day yesterday when my soul diva Sally came over with Oscar - what a trouper when she's pregnant to travel all that way but I was so pleased (if only to get rid of my breadmaker and recipe book holder to a deserving home!!!!) Oscar has grown so much and Lydia obviously remembered him as immediately gave him a kiss - her kisses are strictly rationed - she's no easy girl!!

We went and fed the ducks - not at my usual pond as there are loads of fishermen there. I was annoyed when we got to the other place though as there were large signs advising the ducks are "on a diet" and so to buy "special food" from the bar - what a load of codswallop - such a money making venture. Sal did try and buy some but they'd run out thankfully so the ducks filled their faces with my baps (bread rolls you dirty beggars!!)

Took Clive to the airport this morning - he's in Saudi Arabia then comes home Thursday. I've had a lazyish day today - been food shopping and browsing ebay for some goodies for the flight for Lydia.

I did get a worry after shopping - I let Lydia play with my bag while I was packing, got home and realised I had no front door key. Had to knock next door at world's nosiest neighbour so I could ring Sainsburys - no key. Luckily (or not) I have had this problem before so with the help of a bent wire coat hanger I got in(!) only to find my key in the bag I was going to take but changed my mind about - ARRGHH!!! Still, no broken window or extortionate locksmith charges but always a worry knowing how flipping easy it is to get in here unless I double lock the door - in which case I would have had my key!!!

Got Mum and Delena coming up tomorrow to help with some sorting - spare room and wardrobe in Lydia's room mostly. Time is rapidly running out - looks like our flight will be on Sunday 30th July. It's now that more friends are wanting to come and visit so it's a case of - if you're not booked in, you're not coming round - sorry!!

Anyway, will leave you with a shot of Oscar and Lydia enjoying their bananas!

Party No. 2!

2006-07-09T22:47:00.000+05:00

Round 2 of the farewell parties!!! This time it was my side of the family. We had everyone to us and thankfully the weather held although it did get a bit windy at times!
I have loads of stuff to get rid off and I can't be bothered to put it all on eBay so I decided to do 'Lydia's Luicky Dip'!!! It was a huge success - prizes included low energy lightbulbs, garden strimmer, body lotion and sachets of Lemsip!!!

My Aunt and Uncle bought us a lovely book on London to take with us to remind us of home.
Lydia also got some of her birthday presents as we won't be here to celebrate. She only opened one from my sister - we're taking the rest with us for her to open on the day. The sharp eyed amongst you will notice that I have a matching top to the sundress I wore to previous farewell!!
The rest, as usual in pictures!

Lydia sitting comfortably before the party!

My cousin Martyn and my Dad with the lawn feeder he won in the lucky dip!

My sister Ruth and her boyfriend Pete

Lydia and Mollie enjoying some mini pringles!

My sister Delena, Aunt Viv and Mum enjoying a joke!

Popping some Champers!

The Girls - Aunt Viv, Mum, me, Delena and Ruth standing

No need for a glass!

Clive and John (Delena's husband)

Uncle Barrie opening his lucky dip

Having a rocking good time!

My nephew George enjoying a game of Quoits

Opening an early birthday present!

Mollie & Lydia getting in on the Lucky Dip action!

The Farewells Begin!

2006-07-04T00:36:00.000+05:00

Well, we've started the long journey of saying Goodbye. I went for a meal out with my friends Cathy and Mandy on Friday - Clive taped Big Brother for me!!
We went to a restaurant called The Fox near Horsham - it was so nice to eat out. I really miss that. Lovely evening too and we all laughed about pelvic floor muscles (or lack of them), deliveries and all things labour related! That won't be the last time I see them thankfully but just a good excuse to go out for a change.

Saturday I took Lydia to our local Church where they were having a Scarecrow Fair - it was brilliant. Lots of people had made different scarecrows and we had to judge the best ones - my favourite was a steel band trio but they were just for decoration unfortunately!

Sunday we went over to Clive's sister Ali and her husband Tom's house in Welling. There we met up with lots of the family - Clive's mum & dad, his sister Mary and her 'beau' Robert, his brother Don and some of the nieces and nephews - Clive is the youngest of 8 children and Lydia is the 16th grandchild on the Cully side so complete get togethers are a rareity!
Anyway, there was a trampoline in the garden which Lydia loved! I didn't bounce on it - my sundress wouldn't have allowed it I don't think!

Here are the shots of the day :

Oldest cousin Paul with youngest, Lydia

Lydia looking at the fish with her Grandpa

Mass group Shot!

Top Row L-R (relation to Clive in brackets)

Don (brother), Don (father), Glen (nephew), Paul (nephew), Tom (brother in law)

Middle Row

Mary (sister), Clive, me! (wife), Lydia (daughter!) Dot (mother), Misha (neice), Ali (sister)

on floor Lauren (neice)

I Am Spartacus!

2006-06-27T17:37:00.000+05:00

Well, 2 major events happened yesterday - the most important being that Tim & Michelle, Lydia's wonderful, fantastic, beautiful Godparents announced they are expecting a baby!!!!! I can't tell you how excited I am - they had the 12 week scan and then told everyone. They will make such wonderful parents - I can't wait to meet Abba Junior!!

The second important event was - the new Harry Potter finally out in paperback!!!!! Yippeee!!!! I am very sad in that once I start collecting a series of books by the same author, I have to have the matching releases. Hence I waited for the paperback (hardbacks are so difficult to hold in the bath anyway!) and waited to go to Tesco so I could get it for the bargain £3.73!! This of course means I have avoided any plots and discussions about the boy wizard so PLEASE do not tell me anything about the story or reveal who dies.

Another thing I meant to tell you - we had the list of stuff forbidden from being imported into Dubai. In it, it states no religious ornaments (including crosses, crucifixes and Buddhas). I thought that was bad enough - then it states no films of a biblical theme, examples given are Ten Commandments and......Ben Hur - I ask you!!!! That's a classic and yes, we have it on DVD - There will be SERIOUS falling out if they confiscate my Spartacus DVD as well - the greatest film ever made!!!!!
I can see some smuggling going on by the Cullys!!

Saw my lovely friends Cathy and Mandy yesterday with their respective children Samuel and Holly. We all met at ante natal classes and it's been wonderful seeing the 3 grow up together - here's and early picture of them:

L-R Samuel, Holly and Lydia - placed in order of birth!

and here they are yesterday

Pictures I meant to post

2006-06-24T20:27:00.000+05:00

First things first - HUGE congratulations to Adele on the birth of Rory! Also to Bec who's recently had Jayden - boys must be in the air at the moment! Finally but not least to Simone and Jay one the birth of Lola Rose - hope we get to see you before we leave!

Also hope Jack is having a fantastic 2nd birthday party today - sorry we couldn't make it (Lydia was going to be a bunch of grapes made out of balloons by the way!!!)

I've been having problems downloading pics from my camera and so thought I'd lost these but thankfully haven't!
So, here are some photos from when Lydia went to her friend Samuel's (one of a number of potential husbands) new house!

Lydia still doesn't eat very much - Samuel is great and ate everything you can see on their plates. Still, we have had a major breakthrough - Lydia never ate fish before - every time I tried it she'd throw up after about an hour. This week she has had mini fish fingers twice and no reaction - HURRAH!!!! I am now hoping that she can try all sorts of fish happily as I love fresh fish and get it every week from the man who delivers round here.

Anyway, managed to do another kitchen cupboard out this morning while Clive tackled the shed. It's not too bad as my Dad had sorted it wonderfully for us when I was pregnant. We've decided to take our bikes in the (probably vain) hope that we can get into some sort of exercise out there. The estate out there is huge so we won't have to risk life and limb on the roads!

I thought we all needed a break as well today so we visited the Summer Fair at Guildford Cathedral for an hour. It was really lovely - just the sort of genteel day I love and the vicar even wore a typical summer Panama hat!

I won a football for Lydia in the tombola - the best prize I could have got for her then we thought we'd attempt the donkey rides. She'd already backed away from a man dressed as Bob The Builder so we weren't sure how she'd react - I needn't have worried. Lydia is quite definitely her mothers daughter and LOVES anything horse or donkey related.

She was more concerned the helmet was too large for her than worrying about coming off!!!

So, pictures in a slideshow I'm afraid because yet again, Blogger has decided that I have uploaded enough

Countdown is Progressing!

2006-06-20T22:14:00.000+05:00

Sorry for the silence.
As you can appreciate - there is SO much to do. We had a shipping company visit to give a quote on packing and taking our stuff. As it's an empty house in Dubai we obviously need our furniture now and it'll fit well there.
Anyway, they'll pack everything and have even stated in the quote that client is not to pack anything as they list everything. It still means I have loads to sort though - I think my Tupperware has been breeding in the cupboard! Still, that's all cleaned now (thank goodness for dishwashers) and sorted ready for them to take out again!
I got rid of lots of chopping boards and wooden spoons that have seen better days. Still got the cutlery drawer to do and other cupbards - we do have a large kitchen but the more space, the more to fill with junk!

I've tried writing a plan of action as I need to fit in activities with Lydia. She does try and help though and I think she enjoys it! Today was a lovely day weather wise so while she played in the garden I managed to empty all the plant pots I've neglected and get rubbish for the dump. I drove her there so that's another thing cleared - the shed is on the list for this weekend - not looking forward to that but it's got to be done.

I only really get Clive's help at the weekends so I need to make the most of them! He has been working from home today but rarely comes out of the office. It's nice now though as he can bath Lydia while I update this and then get ready to tackle the ironing.

So, looks like we'll be gone the end of July. The shipment should take (up to) about 5 weeks so basically, once it's packed, we need to go. We'll either stay in a hotel or rent a furnished place in Dubai. It means we'll have time to sort our house though - we need to get an oven, fidge, washing machine anyway so at least we can get that all fitted and ready before the furnitire arrives.

We're Back Part 3

2006-06-08T18:24:00.000+05:00

I'll get to finish this post soon!!!

Our bedroom with attached balcony terrace

Back of the villa so you can see the terrace

Clive checking out the view

Landing with 'family area' which will probably be for Lydia!

Downstairs hallway

Another view of upstairs family area

We're Back - Part 2

2006-06-08T15:37:00.000+05:00

Some of the Dubai skyline from our hotel

Everywhere you look there are cranes!

Just visible in the distance are the start of the hotels being built on the Palm

Here is the new Cully residence!

This is the spacious, beautifully landscaped garden(!)

Sitting Room

Kitchen

The view from our bedroom - loads to look at as you can see(!)

We're Back! Part 1

2006-06-07T16:18:00.000+05:00

We're back!!!! The flight out was great - Emirates are brilliant and as the flight wasn't full they gave me a seat for Lydia which just made the hugest difference.

The heat in Dubai is incredible - it got to about 110 degrees and it's getting hotter each day - night is just the same and so air con is a must.

Anyway to cut a story short - we found a villa!! It's in Arabian Ranches and is about 20 minutes drive from the centre of Dubai.

It's a 3 bed with study and maids quarters. I am still debating about live in maids but all new houses out there are built with such rooms as most people have one. Things are done very differently out there and it's going to take me a while to get used to that. Even after paying a deposit we were told it would be refunded if the landlord recieved a better offer - everything is completely in favour of the landlord so we're constantly reading contracts and checking what's what.

The contract starts from 10th June but we still need to confirm residency before we can get electric and water connected. That will probably be about 6 weeks then before we're off - not that long really. It's a brand new build so completely unfurnished. It has loads of storage though and built in wardrobes so we don't need to ship anything like that. We're allowed to put up pictures and things as long as we leave the fittings when we leave - can't take it out of the wall in case we damage it and then get charged to repair it.

There is no postal delivery, just PO boxes so we will get that after residency is confirmed.

Here then, is a picture tour of our time!

Am I covered up enough Mummy?

The hotel room's bath wasn't exactly child friendly (Clive had to get in with her to wash her as the sloping sides made it impossible to lean over and you had to walk up 2 steps to get in to it!!) but Lydia seemed to like it!

The view from the car on the way to the villa - such lush greenery don't you think?!

Now Blogger is seriously annoying me so I'll have to put the rest of the pictures on a new post....

See You in a Week!

2006-05-29T00:10:00.000+05:00

Well it's now Sunday night - Lydia and I leave about 5.30am on Tuesday.
I've nearly finished the housework - just the last jobs like washing the kitchen floor - that'll get done when Lydia goes to sleep tomorrow then I can get a bath and try to relax!

As you all know I hate the idea of going alone again. I've got everything written down so I know where and when I've got to go. I have this phobia about being late for anything - stupid really but I can't help it. It always means I'm early. I've even written down what time to get up, have a cup of tea and then what time to get Lydia up - it'll no doubt mean I'll be too early for the people collecting my car at the airport so I'll have to drive round Heathrow again because the men there wave you on if you wait longer than 3 seconds but hey!

Clive has arrived at the hotel - Le Royal Meridien. Apparently we've been upgraded to a Tower Suite so we get a butler(!) We had one last time in November but only used him when the DVD player broke! This time though we get a complimentary bottle of wine in our room....EVERY DAY!!!!!!!! Bring it on!!!!

Oh yes.....it's also 35 degrees out there - for all you oldies like me, that's 95 Fahrenheit....at 8PM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We should have some appointments to view houses out there - I'm hoping we'll be in a position to confirm and sign there and then. It's at a place called Arabian Ranches, so called because of the Sheikh's love of horses - I am a huge fan too so I'm hoping I can get back in the saddle so to speak out there!

Oh my days - just found this as well - maybe it'll give you some idea about how everything is out there (check out the first picture in the photo gallery!!!!) and if any of you send me one of the delightful e-cards there'll be words!!

So I'll sign off until my return - I'll try and blog while I'm out there but I'm sure you'll understand if I'm too busy trying to stay cool/get my manicure and pedicure at the best place ever/eating out at another luxury restaurant.

LOVE YA!!!!!

She Wears Them Well!

2006-05-24T00:02:00.000+05:00

Sunglasses that is!! We popped into town at the weekend and Lydia saw these in Mothercare - I'm never sure if children will keep on sunglasses but yet again our daughter makes her own style decisions - as soon as she'd seen them they had to be worn IMMEDIATELY - cue people oohing and aaahing over her in the shop! They're proper protection too so ideal for Dubai.
Anyway, as soon as she was up this morning, guess what had to be put on?!

As any driver knows, sunglasses are a must (especially when concentrating THIS hard)

"I said no press"Chilling with some proper TUNES!!!

It's Back!!!

2006-05-19T11:26:00.000+05:00

Every year I say to myself 'don't get involved' and every year it's a futile thought - BIG BROTHER IS BACK!!!!!!! I love the first night then it usually has to settle in a bit before I start enjoying it again. There's the usual mix of 'crazy' people. So far loving the awful Bonnie (which she pronounces Bonna) Shebaz is annoying me big time and can't wait to see Lea lying in the sun with her incredible boobs pointing up!!!!

Clive is home today after a week in Germany. He's then off to Saudi next Friday. Lydia and I will then join him on Tuesday 30th May. This means I have to pack, get to the airport, check in and fly on my own again (I did it in November). At least in November my parents took me to the airport but they're going away themselves so won't be around.
Clive is arranging a meet & greet which his firm use - it means I can drive up to the door basically and there'll be someone there to take my car - less faff about car seats and I don't need to worry about long term car parks etc.
The actual flight is 8.30am so it'll be a very early start and no doubt Lydia will be awake for the whole flight so I'll be getting lots of things to amuse her like those magic paint books that Sam got for Little John from Ess.

Still, a week on the sun to actually get a house (hopefully) and see local shops, services and how long it'll take to drive to the beach(!) I think we're staying at The Meridien which is lovely and has its own beach - they always doi babysitting services so at least I might get a night out for a change!

Sorry I haven't been in touch with lots of you - it's manic in my head thinking of everything - yes Karen, I should be back for your visit so let me know what's happening!

Tune!!! Thanks Karen!

2006-05-16T17:58:00.000+05:00

Goals, Jambo & TUNE!!!!!!

2006-05-14T16:41:00.000+05:00

Well yesterday was a big day in our house - FA Cup Final!!! Being married to a West Ham fan meant I couldn't escape - actually I've always enjoyed the FA final - the build up is always exciting!
After putting 3 bets online at Ladbrokes (WH to win, winning score of 2-1, first scorer to be WH player), Clive settled down with Lydia to watch some serious footie!

Then the fun began! Clive couldn't keep still for the game at all and then his dream came true....The Hammers scored!!!!!! (Well, actually Liverpool got an own goal but same result!!)

Unfortunately, they lost to Liverpool but I have to say, it was the best FA final they've had for years although I hate penalties - roll on the World Cup now!!!!

Thanks to Sasha (I always want to say Splishie!!!) and Karen for your suncream advice - Karen I have heard of that P20 but never used it - I can't believe something that goes on once would protect all day but if it's working for Danny I'll look into it!
This is just for you Kaz - I've taught Lydia to do TUNE!!!!!!!!! We were listening to Faithless Insomnia - I 've been trying to put it on my blog but it keeps playing a stupid advert at the start so takes the impact away somewhat!!

Finally, a shot of Lydia and Jambo - anyone who remembers my pics on Babycentre will recall we used Jambo as practice for the sling, nappies and pram so it's lovely to see him with Lydia!! (and yes, that is a panty liner on the step next to Lydia - class act me!)

Oh and Sam - SNORT at you looking at staying at the Burj Al Arab!!!!!! They even charge people to look around you know! I'm planning on going there just for afternoon tea so we can look but scoff our faces at the same time!!

Clive's gone to Germany today for a stupid training course - be back Friday then we're hoping to go to Dubai roughly 30th to GET A HOUSE!!!!!

TFI Friday!

2006-05-12T11:25:00.000+05:00

Had Lydia's hair cut yesterday - she's like me in that her hair grows very quickly and then starts taking over her head!!!

Before:

The flower in her hair is from where we feed the ducks.

After:

What a difference!

I must say my Mum would laugh if she knew how organised you all thought I was! Actually, I am an organised person but getting round to doing stuff is not my thing and I get bored quickly so always start jobs with good intentions and get fed up halfway through - that's why I doubt I'll be that ready for Dubai!

Sasha - I wanted to ask what suncream you use for you and the family - do you use anything special? I've bought an all over sunsuit for Lydia so she can play in the sea without getting burnt but I need your advice on creams!

A BIG HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my friend Karen for yesterday - belated card is on its way!

Another beautiful day today - just got a bit of washing on then may pop into town for an hour to change some stuff - Clive will be homethis afternoon - he chanmged my screensaver wihout telling me so it was a lovely surprise to see "I love you Lesley" dancing across the screen!

Starting to Plan

2006-05-09T22:47:00.000+05:00

Thanks again for all the lovely comments about Lydia - she truly is the light of our lives and I just don't know what I'd do without her!

Not much to update on - I gave blood today - that makes my 11th donation. They marked me down as being away now for 2 years to cover me for Dubai then will contact me again when I return. I'm always pleased when I donate as I'm AB neg so quite a rare blood group - I said that to the nurse how chuffed that made me until she reminded me that it wouldn't be so great being that rare when I ever needed the blood!!

Posted a load of ebay parcels yesterday and had 2 items collected today. Got a load of stuff to take to my sister tomorrow as well - she's running a bric-a-brac stall soon so I've got loads of videos and other bits for her. I've also sorted a huge amount of baby clothes. I was keeping them for baby number 2 but to be honest, the cost of storing them here, shipping them over or taking them now in case just isn't worth it. I'd like to have another soon so it looks as though it would be a Dubai baby so it'll have all new stuff I think! Maternity clothes too - I was pregnant over the winter so all my clothes will be obselete over there - a great excuse to go shopping I think!

So, I've washed them all, tumble dried and packed in a bag ready so that's cleared a bit more space.

Had my bruv in law over today - he's an independent financial adviser and takes care of all our money so it was good to get a few things straight, see what still needs storing and what we need to do.

Anyway, Clive's off to Beirut tomorrow until Friday so am aiming to start packing away my china and bits!

Make A Wish

2006-05-07T16:07:00.000+05:00

Sunny Days!

2006-05-05T21:39:00.000+05:00

What a beautiful couple of days we're having weather wise!
Yesterday I took Lydia to Hayling Island for our visit to my Mum & Dad. She was still a bit fragile I think - she enjoyed playing with Mollie in the morning then just flopped again in the afternoon and wanted lots of cuddles.

She is heaps better today though and had a lovely 2 hour nap at lunchtime so seems back to normal thank goodness.

I babysat Cathy's gorgeous boy Sam last night - he was good as gold. He did wake once calling for 'mummy' which was adorable - I'm used to Lydia just crying! Anyway, after a quick cuddle he was off again. I took the oppurtunity to do some sorting as well so after demolishing fish 'n' chips I cleared a load of old photographs. We're still got a trunk full which needs to be sorted but at least I made a start - blurred pics, people I don't know or can't remember their names - all stupid wastes of space so I got rid!

Not done much today - Clive's in London tonight with friends so I'm cooking myself my favourite tomato pasta dish and settling down with all my magazines and the channel 5 trash programme on Tom & Katie - brilliant!

Oh and to all those people bidding and watching my stuff - THANK YOU!!!!! It's weird having people I know buying my goods but there you go!

Here are some pics from yesterday - I tried Lydia's hair in a mini - ponytail. She's so good she loves having her hair styled and never takes the clips out!:

Mollie made me some tea!
The girls had some ice-cream. Well, Lydia just stirred hers around - she's not that keen on ice-cream so Mollie finished hers off!

Dubai Details!

2006-05-01T22:54:00.000+05:00

....ok, to answer a few questions!!

First HUGE thanks for all the comments - I do love reading them all! Also, to my lurker friend Vixter - I WILL call you soon I promise!

My eBay name is redlesley10 so feel free to snort and roll with laughter at my wordly goods for sale - more added most nights so keep browsing all you shoppers!!

I am now planning on a secret night visit to local charity shops by the way to 'ahem' donate my bags - 6 at the last count!!!

Yes, the blog and internet connection WILL continue in Dubai - it's the reason I started this!

Imminent - means weeks now, rather than months. I knew it would get to this sort of last minute thing. The paperwork has mostly been sorted - we now need to go and get a house!

That should be arranged soon then we can sort out shipment of goods and what needs to be stored here. We're now probably going to sell this house - it makes sense as I was worrying we'd be leaving ourselves with no property to come back to BUT I'd forgotten that as Clive's firm will be paying for our Dubai mansion(!) we will have all the house proceeds here in savings so we'll have money to spend on another house on our return!
The sale won't be immediate though as I may really detest Dubai so we're leaving our options very open for the first few months - if it means I stay in UK and Clive is in Dubai for a year then so be it, we'll survive!

So, the office has been sorted today but not to the extent I wanted as my poor baby girl has been ill all day. She had breakfast ok then just as Clive and I settled to the office with Lydia 'helping' she got very crochety and moany.
I went and watched CBeebies for a bit (with her, not on my own!) but after a while realised she hadn't really moved when normally she watches a bit then wants to go and play.
She got steadily more lethargic and so we called NHS Direct who called back HOURS later. Her temp went up and down and I'm sorry to say I never gave her CalPol or anything - mainly becasue I was loath to treat her for something I didn't know was wrong- stupid I know now. Anyway, after she threw up the tiny piece of banana we'd given her and after the NHS nurse said to give CalPol, she got better - as if all day was a dream!

Such a relief after seeing her on the sofa all day - she decided to dress up to celebrate and show me each time she had a new outfit so here for your enjoyment is Lydia! (note the socks - there are just some days when I can NEVER find a matching pair!!!).....

Charity Begins At Home!

2006-05-01T00:51:00.000+05:00

Let me start this properly. Dubai is imminent - we NEED to sort our HUGE amount of stuff once and for all.
So, I planned to do this yesterday - starting in the spare room. My lovely friend MAndy then calls - she knew I'd wanted to get cracking and so offered to take Lydia out for a couple of hours to a local 'Fleecy Frolics' show at the local farm - FAB!!

Clive and I spent the next few hours sorting, bagging and listing stuff for eBay. We ended up with a car full of bags for the dump and local charity shops.

Lydia got home - exhausted but having had a brilliant time (thanks again Mandy!). We then drove to the dump first - fine, no hassle. Ok, on to Oxfam.
Now, I don't shop in charity shops - not for any reason in particular, just never needed to I suppose. Having said that, I try and recycle or donate as much as I can so the stuff I donate to charity is always in immaculate condition and worthy of selling.
Clive went in with 2 bags only to re-emerge still with bags saying the woman had declared 'We're only taking clothes today'. I was not happy - I'd spent all morning clearing so was a little tired and wanted to GET RID!
So, in I go - said woman (who resembled Toad of Toad Hall) was serving a customer so I patiently waited.
When the time came I politey asked where I could donate:

Her - Donate?
Me - Yes, donate
H - Donate what?
M - (getting more fed up) - you have just informed my husband you are only taking clothes so where else locally can I make a DONATION??
- polite male customer then interrupts with details of another local shop
M - (addressing man) thanks so much for your help
Him - no problem - they'll take the donation
Her - to man in stupid huffy laughing sarcastic way - Well, (smirks) they might!
Me - I'M SURE THEY WILL - (shouting now whilst walking out)

What I should have done of course is just DUMP the bloody bags in the shop and left her to get on with it.
I live in Guildford - a council proud of its recycling and book detailing charity shops and what they'll take - well, I plan on calling said council to vent my tired old spleen as after calling several shops I am SICK of their high and mighty attitude - my dad used to help out in a MacMillan Shop so I KNOW they have places they can call to sell on clothes and other stuff so they still make a profit.

OK, I am now calm, rant over - at least my eBay selling list is now healthier and I am the one making money.

2006-04-28T02:10:00.000+05:00

A little while ago my friend Cathy had mentioned that she felt guilty for not doing more things craft related with her son Samuel. The reason being that like me, Cathy is a stay at home mum and so don't always get round to doing the sort of activities found in nurseries.
So, I decided to remedy this!! Lydia and I spent some lovely time in ELC yesterday choosing paint and play doh (known as soft stuff in ELC). I then set it all up today in the kitchen - we're fortunate enough to have a huge kitchen so I got newspapers on the floor, set out paint on paper plates and put the soft stuff on the table for after the painting!

I have to say it was BRILLIANT!!! As soon as Sam and Lydia sat down they got stuck in - so much so that Cath and I soon realised we'd have to remove socks and shoes so they could get as messy as they wanted!

This picture shows how neat it all started - the next shows the aftermath!!

We didn't bother with aprons - the paint is washable and the clothes were old!

Sam got some beautiful bright colours mixed up while Lydia stuck to making browns and purples!

Then Lydia decided she'd had enough of painting her trousers and so I painted her feet so she could do footprints, swiftly followed by handprints. I love these shots of her - she looks like a proper artist holding her palette and getting the 'feel' of the painting!!

She really enjoyed the soft stuff too - I'd like to lie and say she made the flower you can see but I just can't!!

Finally I bought a dress up Barbie fridge magnet! I detest Barbie (I was more of a Sindy girl!) but these are great and as you can see - keep Lydia amused!

Friends!

2006-04-22T20:52:00.000+05:00

Had another lovely few days - saw Sal and Oscar on Tuesday which was lovely as always. We went into the Guildford Oxfam shop - it's not somewhere I've been to as it's not on my normal shopping route if you know what I mean (I stick to the old faves!) Anyway I was delighted to find a wooden train set with lots of multi race passengers! (See my moan about lack of mixed race toys on previous posts!) Anyway, it's magnetic, brand new and for the grand sum of £2.49! BARGAIN!!

Yesterday was great too as I met up with my Postnatal friends Sue and her daughter Maya and Alison and her daughter Gracie. There was a mix up with the Postnatal classes (basically they forgot to put me on them) so Lydia is about 3 months older than them.

Maya is also mixed race and they could be sisters!

Gracie is just as adorable and full of energy - she really makes me laugh as she's so happy! This is a rare still shot of her!

They all enjoyed playing in the garden - Lydia showed off her skills at climbing the steps up and down unaided:

They then sat and gave a rousing rendition of Twinkle Twinkle, Little Star (well, Gracie did all the actions while Maya and Lydia looked on and we mums sang our hearts out!!)

Words of Wisdom

2006-04-20T02:19:00.000+05:00

I have two quotes on my fridge that I read every now and then - thought I might share.
The first was on a bookmark that was left every night on my pillow when I stayed in Dubai in November - mainly they were all about working hard, ignoring tirdness, productivity that sort of thing but I kept this one:

A mother remains

a mother, in her

sensitivity, emotions

and love for her

children, regardless

of conditions,

environment

and age

HH Sheikh Mohammed

The other is how I try and live my life:

If I had my child to raise all over again,

I'd finger-paint more and point the finger less.

I'd do less correcting and more connecting.

I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.

I would care to know less and know to care more.

I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.

I'd stop playingserious, and seriously play.

I'd run through more fields and gaze at more stars.

I'd do more hugging and less tugging.

I would be firm less often, and affirm much more.

I'd build self-esteem first, and the house later.

I'd teach less about the love of power,

and more about the power of love

Diana Loomans

I'm not normally the sentimental type (I hate those emails you get with puppies all over them saying how much I'm loved by someone out there) but I do like these!

Tag!

2006-04-17T21:09:00.000+05:00

Right, I've been tagged by Kel to reveal 6 strange facts about me so here goes!

I once stole 2 bibles from a house my mum cleaned for - one was red the other blue and belonged to the children of the house. They fit perfectly into my jeans pockets! I confessed to Mum and we returned them the next day!
I used to collect bus tickets and till receipts - completely useless, incredibly boring and I have no idea why I did it!
I was fitted with braces on both top and bottom teeth - they were the awful railway track type, complete with elastic bands. I used to try and laugh them off by saying I could grate my own cheese!
I once ordered a bumper box of fizzy cola bottles and would lie in bed every Friday watching Love Hurts whilst eating them!
I remember playing chase at primary school and running round the playground screaming "Run for your life" but really meaning it!!
I have never really had a best friend - I get bored chatting on the 'phone for ages, hate shopping with other people and would prefer to read a book alone - no wonder I never fit in with the 'in' crowd!!

Ok, I tag Sal, Sue, Karen and Bobbie but ignore at your will - I never usually do these so understand if you don't!!

Easter Treats

2006-04-17T12:56:00.000+05:00

So anyway, Good Friday! As I said, we had friends over for lunch - Tim & Michelle, Lydia's adored Godparents and Jay & Simone - Simone is 30 weeks pregnant. I didn't get a picture unfortunately but she is very compact and looks great!
After lunch Tim decided to show Lydia how to play football and Jay insisted it should be cricket!
Here's (Big) Jay showing his skills:

It was such a lovely day weather wise - I love it when we can get in the garden.

Here's Tim showing off to Lydia!

Michelle is the perfect Godmother - they always bring thoughtful gifts and Lydia loves them - here's Michelle reading with Lydia.

Later we put some music on and Lydia shook her thang! She can also now jump with BOTH feet off the ground so she showed everyone that skill whilst laughing hysterically!

Next day was Easter Saturday and we went to my Aunt Viv and Uncle Barrie's house in Upper Norwood. Viv always puts on a lovely spread and we all ate so much I was completely stuffed! As always Lydia got some lovely gifts including a fab chair we can take out and about. All 3 of the younger children now have their own so my sister Ruth sat with them whilst they ate their lunch:

It was the first time Clive had met Pete, Ruth's new boyfriend. Pete is actually moving from Catford (big up Sal!) to Hayling Island so they're house hunting at the moment. Pete doesn't have any young children in his family so it was a real baptism of fire for him - he's already spent Good Friday surrounded by George and Mollie and then Saturday was joined by Lydia!!

He coped very well though and Lydia was happy to sit on his lap to read (again!).

Mollie and Lydia got into the garden and Mollie was more than happy to help Lydia around! They adore each other and play together really well.

Easter Sunday and Lydia decided she wanted as many hairclips on her head as possible!
She has got such a good sense of humour! As soon as we were ready it was another journey - this time to see Clive's parents in Eltham. They presented her with some fantastic Bob The Builder wellie boots which she wanted on immediately and then kept on for most of the day!

I thought I'd forgotten to take the camera and only realised I'd had it all along when we got home!

So, here's Lydia with her boots when we got home:

We were joined by Clive's sister Ali and her daughter Misha - Clive's mum then got all her hatsd out and we had a mini Easter bonnet parade! Lydia tried every hat on and we were all awarded with an Easter egg at the end so that was good!

Dot (Clive's mum) cooked us some lovely Burmese curries including coconut rice which was delicious.
Clive's brother Noel and his partner Steve then arrived which was lovely. Noel prefers to be known as Bob but I sometimes get confused so Lydia will no doubt grow up calling him Uncle NoelBob!

They then got out all the strange sweets - I call them strange becuase they all have exotic foreign names, have no English on the packaging so you have no real idea what's actually in them and they taste (to me) very odd! Clive, Bob and Ali love them of course so they were happy eating it all while I stayed away!

Now here we are on Bank Holiday Monday. We've done so much travelling the last week we're having a day at home. Clive has been playing with Lydia in the garden, I'm doing my blog, have done a load of washing and am about to start ironing before we all go and feed the ducks later - perfect!

Maundy Thursday

2006-04-16T12:31:00.000+05:00

Well it's only Sunday and I feel as if I've done loads since my last post!!
Anyway, Thursday I decided to pop into Guildford - I'd promised to get Mum some pegs from Lakeland (the nice soft grip ones!). It was lovely and quiet on the roads and easy to park - I was a bit surprised cos of the holidays it's usually busy everywhere.

Got there about 10.30, put 2 hours on the car park and off we went. I needed to get a gift for a friend who's just had aother baby and knew Baby Gap did some lovely pj's - just about to go there when I saw loads of barriers and police! Being the shy retiring type I marched up to one and asked what was going on! "oh" He said "the Queen's coming today" Well you could have knocked my socks off!!! I listen to local radio but I'd heard nothing! I'm not a raving Royalist either - I think the Queen does a good job and I would rather have a monarchy than a dictatorship but start me off on the Queen Mother and I will talk for HOURS about how much I hated her!!

Anyway, I decided to stay and see the Queen - she was due about 12.45. I stood with a few other people at the barriers and entertained Lydia with watching the pigeons. Then I saw my friend Tracy and her twins so she joined us. By then it got busy really quickly and I started to forget my intentions of going to put more money on the meter - it was not possible to move anymore! I bought a flag for Lydia which she waved manically until she nearly took my eye out!

Anyway to cut a long story short - we saw the Queen!!!!!! She unfortunately walked on the other side so the only pics I got on my phone are of her back but then Prince Philip walked straight past us! I did call out "Queenie" but no luck!!
One little girl was carried over the barrier to give her flowers direct to the Queen - turns out she's the daughter of a woman that goes to my Monday playgroup so that was a bit exciting too!

You can just see her in the cream outfit!

So, that was my excitement Thursday. Friday was then Good Friday obviously. Friends came - Tim & Michelle who are Lydia's godparents bought her some terrific Mr Men books which she refuses now to put down - she walks round the house reading them AND even reads them when having her nappy changed!

I'll tell all in another post - stupid Blogger won't let me put any more pictures up at the moment and a blog is no good without visuals in my opinion!!!

Cars and Buses!

2006-04-12T22:00:00.000+05:00

It's weeks like these that I realise how little I miss working full time!
Don't get me wrong, I loved my job, well the people mostly but it was good to drive a company car, travel across the country and be responsible for large projects. It's just now that my focus has changed - Lydia is my project. Anytime I'm walking down the road with her and it's a slow walk I just remember sitting on the M25, going nowhere fast and thanking all my stars that I don't need to do that anymore and I'm FREE!!!!

Yesterday was a typical lovely day - went to see Sally and Oscar. We went to see the planetarium show at Greenwich.
I used to live just near there and I LOVE Greenwich - especially the park and market on a Sunday. When we got out of the show we had lunch and then decided to go to the swings - unfortunately this is when the rain decided to come so we hotfooted it to the car. Oscar is A-MAZING with his vocabulary. He is a day younger than Lydia (see, we were meant to be as close to each other as possible!) and I just am constantly in awe of his speech. As well as saying Lydia, he knows his colours and was pointing out all the red, blue and green cars - it's not even toddler talk, it's as clear as a bell, proper understandable words!!

I bored Sal rigid I'm sure with memories of when I lived in SE London and where things used to be and then I mentioned the marshmallow 'ice creams' my Dad used to buy us as children for a treat and she remembered them too - UNCANNY!!!! They were (very) dry cones with a 'scoop' of marshmallow in the top sprinkled with sugar strands - we loved them!
Anyway, back at Sal's we had more tea while Oscar and Lydia huddled with books:

I am a huge book fan and Lydia likes nothing more than settling down with a book - Oscar has loads of fab books from America (including a brilliant scratch and sniff book complete with smell of skunk - nice!)

Sadly this was the only picture I took - there was a gorgeous shot I should have got of Lydia snuggled on Sally's lap reading together!

Today we went on our weekly visit to Mum & Dad - Wednesday is market day and as it was glorious weather, the island was busy. Dad mentioned he'd been to the market and seen a toy car - it's the Little Tikes coupe one - He's already bought 3 there for the children to play with!! Anyway, I went back to the market with Dad, saw the car and paid the grand sum of £5 - what a bargain!!! Lydia adores it and has now clearly pointed to it and said 'Car' so a triumph as it's also her first real word association!!

Dad washed it all for us and it's come up a treat - here it is back at home - Lydia has been playing in it most of today and will be every day from now on as far as I can tell!!

I also bought 3 DVDs for £10 - Donnie Darko, Bride and Prejudice and Bridget Jones The Edge of Reason - I can always resell on eBay if they're total rubbish!

Got home to find the London Bus had arrived so huge excitement - I was meaning to put it away for Lydia's birthday but great plans and all that - she LOVES it! Here it is with a shot showing it with the removable top deck:
In all honesty the only thing I'd change about it would be to have less white passengers - like most toys it's lacking in different races.
I don't want to sound all PC and everything cos I think that's too extreme these days but I grew up with a black adopted cousin, have married a man of Burmese origin and so want my daughter to have as broad a horizon of people as possible. Having said that, I have never encountered any racism being in a mixed marriage and am sure Lydia will be as open minded as her parents but living in a very white populated area as Guildford is interesting.
Dubai will be different again so she will be exposed to more cultures there!

Blimey - that sounded a bit heavy but not what I intended!

London Bus!

2006-04-10T15:22:00.000+05:00

Thanks for all the help with finding a toy bus!! I've eventually settled on this one that Sue sent me from http://www.toypost.co.uk/ It's on offer at £17.50 and the main reason I've gone for it apart from the cheaper price is that as well as the roof coming off, the whole top deck is attached with magnets so all that is removable too so it'll be easier for Lydia to put the passengers where she wants!

For anyone else interested in the 2 for 1 London tickets go HERE

Well some news on Dubai at last - Clive has been told the legal entity should be agreed in the next 20 days. In theory that means we can then apply for a residents permit, drivers licence that sort of thing. I will believe it when I get the date in writing mind! Still, we're now re-looking at potential houses and may be going out soon to look again - I'll go as well this time - do you really think choosing a house should be left to one man?!
More news as it comes I promise but it's looking more positive anyway.

A Fishy Tale

2006-04-08T22:41:00.000+05:00

Well today was a lovely day! Lydia is the perfect age now to appreciate proper days out so we decided to go to the London Aquarium. I printed a voucher which meant we got 2 for the price of 1 entry - we didn't pay for Lydia which was good so it was only £11.75 for all of us. I like to be up and out early so we caught the 9.32am train from Guildford and got to Waterloo. The aquarium is just a short walk from there passing the London Eye which is just magnificent!
There was no queue to get in which was great (by the time we got out the line was massive and I wouldn't have kept Lydia waiting in it, it was just too long).

Anyway, as soon as we saw the first tank, Lydia was entranced and just kept jumping up an down in excitement (I say jumping - she bounces up ok but manages to keep one foot on the ground so she's nearly there!!)

She loved the big fish and particularly the sharks! The tanks are really big and so there were lovely shoals of fish swimming with the sharks. There's no walk through area though (you know the sort where you walk in a tunnel). That's a shame as Clive and I went to one in San Francisco and it's great to see them swimming above you. Lydia didn't mind though!

We weren't able to stay for the shark feeding as that was for later in the day but we did go to the touching pool - this is where the rays swim round and you are allowed to touch them as they swim past - they must enjoy it as they kept coming back for more - I eventually managed to get Lydia to touch one and she thought it was brilliant!

They're quite rough to feel but Lydia wasn't at all freaked which was good - I always loved animals and fish in particular as a child and so I hope she's not going to be a girl that's afraid of everything that creeps!

We spent a bit of time in the gift shop where we bought some glow in the dark dolphins! I've already hung them from her ceiling so hopefully they'll glow tonight! I overheard one mum tell her son they'd just heard an announcement telling everyone to leave the shop - now that's what I call an ingenious strategy for avoiding buying loads of tat!!

After the fish had all been viewed and pointed at, we made for somewhere to eat - Pizza Express! It was Lydia's first time there to eat - she's been before but eaten food I've taken. She wolfed down the dough balls, had some of my chicken and garlic bread and then enjoyed her own mini mozzerella and tomato pizza!

She is very well behaved when we're out - as soon as she gets fidgety it's usually time to go anyway!

She fell asleep on the walk to Covent Garden which was good - Clive and I stopped for a cup of tea and then when she woke we browsed the markets. I love Covent Garden although it's SO busy!

There was a Monsoon shop there - nothing unusual in that but Lydia really suits their clothes so we went in - She

officially takes after me and has declared herself a handbag queen - she kept trying them all on her arm and loved them all!!

I've seen a gorgeous wooden red London double decker bus toy in a magazine but it's a bit pricey at £45 - we looked everywhere today and not even the London Transport Shop had anything! So, looks as though I could be shelling out! Ebay normally help me out on things like that but they only have the American style and I want the traditional London one - here's the one I want.

We left London and got the 15.15 train home - perfect really, Lydia enjoyed her grapes and Clive fell asleep - just a normal time out really!! - Luckily for Clive, Blogger won't let me update that picture - I'll save it for another time!!

We saw a Chinese home delivery van deliver to a neighbour earlier so roll on crispy duck and crispy chicken with chilli!!!

Happy Easter!

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With thanks to my friend Karen for sending me this!!

He's Off The Hook!

2006-04-03T22:35:00.000+05:00

Yes, finally I can let Clive off for forgetting Mother's Day! I shall explain....We had a wonderful weekend. My neice Mollie was 2 on Friday so we went there on Saturday for the family get together - Mollie looked fab in her spotty dress which she loved twirling around in! Delena & John made a lovely much as usual - chicken stew and dumplings, fish pie with creme fraiche and loads of roast potatoes, veg and other stuff!

Here is Mollie blowing out her candles and being 'helped' by George!

That night we decided to stay with my Mum & Dad overnight - Lydia has started not settling in the travel cot but after a very short while she fell fast asleep, snoring and stayed there until 6.30 the following morning - success!

After a lovely breakfast Mum offered to look after Lydia while Clive and I went out - can you believe it's something we've never done in the day? We've had babysitters at night obviously but this was the first time Lydia had actually waved us off - there was not one tear! (from her or me!) Dad said later he took her to the beach in her pram all sitting up nicely looking at the waves, next thing he knew he looked and she was fast asleep - now that's fresh air for you!

Anyway, Clive and I decided to go to GunWharf in Portsmouth - it's an outlet shopping centre and we had a ball!!! Clive made it up big time by paying for everything I chose! So I ended up with a sundress and top from Hobbs, underwear from M&S, outfits from O'Neill, a top from Ted Baker and some plates from Whittards - brilliant! It was really what we needed and I think we need to make more of an effort to go out together just the 2 of us.

We got back to fantastic stewing steak and dumplings followed by apple crumble - YUM! Lydia then went to bed well and again slept until 7 this morning - things have dramatically improved for us sleep wise and it's a huge relief.

Today our Teddies group is on half term so Lydia and I went to the park with Cathy and Samuel - they had a great time and both loved the helter skelter slide although I was the one that had to go up with them as Cathy is pregnant!!

We were meant to be visiting Clive's family this weekend but that's been cancelled unfortunately so we've decided to not waste the day and are taking Lydia to the London Aquarium - I can't wait! Like most children her age she loves fish so this will be a real experience for her! We get 2 for the price of 1 tickets as well through the trains so we'll save a bit as well!

This afternoon was nice - I had a make-up consultation at the Estee Lauder counter - she was very good, no pressure sales tactics. So tell me how I managed to still spend £112???? Oh well, Clive said it looks nice, I haven't got any good make-up AND it was double Boots points!!!

Mother's Day and More

2006-03-30T17:44:00.000+05:00

Well, things are slowly getting back to normal now that Clive is home! It's been nice having him back and Lydia is so well balanced it's as if he's never been gone!

Sunday was Mother's Day (as you all know!). I was woken by a cup of tea and...nothing else - Clive knows he's got A LOT of making up to do, believe you me!!
We went down to Hayling Island to take my mum out for lunch - it was lovely, we went to the local British Legion where they do a fantastic roast (lamb shank for me with all the trimmings). It means the children can run around too and other diners don't get upset although I have to say, George, Mollie and Lydia were very well behaved!

Here is Lydia with her cousin Mollie:

Mollie is 2 tomorrow - I can't believe it! I know people say how time goes by so quickly but honestly!!

Neither of them look very happy in this picture - I think they were reacting to the paparazzi style way Clive took the picture - they were quite happy together before that!!

I don't have a picture from the day of George so here is another recent one for you:

Gorgeous George we call him!! Lydia just adores him and her face completely lights up whenever she sees him!

After the Legion we went back for tea and cake to my sister's house. I have 2 sisters, both of whom live on Hayling Island.

Delena (my younger sister) moved there first when she married John and they are parents to George and Mollie.
Ruth (my older sister) moved there with my niece Amy and then my parents moved there. It was very emotional when my mum and dad went for a whole load of reasons but by then I had settled into my flat and was still happy in S.E London. Then I went and met Clive and we eventually moved to Guildford after we married.

Anyway, I digress! Here are 'The Girls':

L-R Ruth, Delena, Mum and me!

We're all quite different, Ruth takes after my Dad big time. Ruth and I used to tell Delena we'd found her on the doorstrep because she was so different to us in that she inherited the olive skin from my Mum's side! (my Grandad was Maltese).

I was very auburn as a child and Ruth was almost a strawberry blonde. Lydia now has hints of the red in her hair which is lovely when it glints in the sunshine!

Lydia and I went to Mum & Dads again on Tuesday which was lovely. Mum does voluntary work in the local theatre so we met her there before heading back for lunch. Ruth was on strike that day so she popped round with my other niece Amy:

Amy is 17!!!!! That means 17 years ago, Ruth and I were in McDonalds in Lewisham when she asked what I'd call a baby girl should I ever have one and as soon as "Amy Louise" was out of my mouth I KNEW that's what Ruth would use!!!

Amy is a fantastic person - so sporty and sociable and a real model for her younger cousins!

It was nice for Ruth to have some bonding time with Lydia too as she's normally at work in the week when we go down to visit:

Lydia spent ages 'making' cups of tea for everyone and clashing cups when we said 'cheers!' She does love to curl up with a book though and whenever she goes quiet in the other room it's usually because she's 'reading'!

She looks so serious in all these pictures!! She was having a good time though I assure you!

Daddy's Home Today!!!!

2006-03-25T16:20:00.000+04:00

Thought I'd do some pictures to show our day before and after Clive got home today:

Looking out for Daddy:

"I can't see him yet Mummy"

Drawing a welcome home banner:

Catching sight of Daddy after just waking from nap:

Getting back in the swing:

Wearing her new Ferrari top from the Bahrain Grand Prix:

Spring Forward, Fall Back

2006-03-24T22:59:00.000+04:00

....So don't forget to put your clocks forward this weekend!

Had a lovely morning - Lydia and I went to see Jemma with her daughter Jaya who is the same age as Lydia and their new baby/brother Jove. I made sure to speak to Jaya first and give her my full attention so she wasn't put out by us visiting to see Jove - We gave her a book - Za Za's Baby Brother and we gave Jove some dinasour pyjamas from Baby Gap.
Then I said hello to Jove - he really is adorable and didn't stir the whole time we were there. He isn't looking as jaundiced as he was (he's 4 weeks early) and has the longest feet I've seen on a newborn!
Jaya was very interested in showing Lydia her toddler website:

It's great as it lets the child just bash away at the keyboard - I've forgotten the name though so I'll have to get the link from Jemma!

When we arrived Jaya was wearing her strawberry hat - Jemma got it when Jaya was only a few months old but Jaya had managed to stretch it onto her head! Lydia decided it was a beautiful hat and that it just had to be worn - here she is with Jove in the background:

The stupid camera is fixed on red-eye and flashes so long I keep missing the good shots so the only other one I got was a blurry shot of Jaya and Jove

We didn't stay for very long - I know how tired I used to get when Lydia was born and entertaining guests was exhausting at times!

Lydia had her usual afternoon nap of 2 hours then when she woke we went to the library. It's a mobile one and comes to our estate every Friday which is wonderful - we can walk round and Lydia loves to sit on their plastic chair and read the books!